Jump to content

Should I be good and break NC or she doesnt deserve it?

eternal.denied84

By eternal.denied84
in Breaks and Breaking Up

 Share
While the thread author can add an update and reopen discussion, this thread was last posted in over a month ago. Want to continue the conversation? Feel free to start a new thread instead!

Recommended Posts

eternal.denied84 Established Member

eternal.denied84

Posted
Posted

guys,

 

i broke with my gf finally after along dragging phase...have been on 30 days of NC..if i feel that my gf was more or less a good person..and i did stupid acts which made her feel insulted/ignored/secondary due to which she broke up with me..this is what she claims..i dont know if it is the real truth or theres something else?

 

ofcourse i begged,cried,asked for forgiveness,second chance,travelled thousand miles to convince her(we were in LDR)..but all in vain..and finally she started saying she never loved me..being in a relationship doesnt mean to her much..all the love we made was not important enough.. whatever love she gave me during 1 year of relationship..she siad it was all nothing..and doesnt mean to her much.

She even asked me to get a new girl. and stop bothering her.

 

after listening to all those i lost my temper and abused her..and now i am on NC from past 30 days

 

my question?

 

should i be the one to break NC and close this on a good note because i was the one who acted like a looser/pathetic just because someone was breaking with me.

 

or should i just let it go like this because she has also not been very sympathetic to me..considering the things she said to me.

 

PS: she has also not been very good in the relation.I found her once flirting with another guy to a cheap extent when she was committed to me and that is why i became indifferent to her for some time.

  • Author
eternal.denied84 Established Member

eternal.denied84

Posted
  • Author
Posted

any replies?

GoneButNotForgotten Established Member

GoneButNotForgotten

Posted
Posted

Let it go man. There is nothing you can do now. It ended on bad terms. It happens sometimes. Nothing good can come from contacting her again.

xpaperxcutx Established Member

xpaperxcutx

Posted
Posted

How did you abuse her? I hope you didn't get physical.

WTRanger Established Member

WTRanger

Posted
Posted

Follow your ex's advice

She even asked me to get a new girl. and stop bothering her.

 

Also considering you couldn't even wait 15 minutes for responses, I can see why it may have gotten to the level where she felt like she had to cut deep with insults. Take some time and learn patience, but under no circumstances should you be contacting this girl anytime soon. Shoot for never contacting her and I highly doubt she'll ever contact you.

  • Author
eternal.denied84 Established Member

eternal.denied84

Posted
  • Author
Posted
How did you abuse her? I hope you didn't get physical.

 

 

No I didnt get physical.

  • Author
eternal.denied84 Established Member

eternal.denied84

Posted
  • Author
Posted
Follow your ex's advice

 

 

Also considering you couldn't even wait 15 minutes for responses, I can see why it may have gotten to the level where she felt like she had to cut deep with insults. Take some time and learn patience, but under no circumstances should you be contacting this girl anytime soon. Shoot for never contacting her and I highly doubt she'll ever contact you.

 

 

it was not 15 minutes..i waited 24 hrs + 15 mins..but yeah i take your points i have not been patient lately.

 Share
Go to topic listing
×
×
  • Create New...