confusedbemused Posted December 16, 2009 Posted December 16, 2009 My boyfriend broke up with me, then said he wanted to see me 2 months later. At this meeting, he told me that he had been thinking a lot, wasn't sure about the breakup, but was uncertain that we should get back together... He gave me his reasons for why he thought we should be apart, and I informed him that most of them (due to some life changes on my part) were now invalid. He told me that he had been on some dates with a girl, but also stressed that they weren't "dating," as in, weren't in a relationship yet. After this discussion, he said that he still needed time to decide, and said that we should remain in no contact, and that "maybe the feelings would fade." I said fine. Fast forward a week. He leaves a book that I had mentioned in passing outside the door of my dorm room, but without telling me that he's going to (He's not at my university anymore, although he lives in town -- meaning that he had to make the 15 minute walk to my room, wait for some stranger to swipe him in, and walk back in bitter cold, and risk seeing me outside MY room without warning me). When I go to church the week after that, he sits right next to me... and then I scoot three feet away, and he ends up moving to a different pew. (yes, it was incredibly awkward). But we still haven't exchanged any words. What is going on?! It's making me nervous.
LovelyDaze Posted December 16, 2009 Posted December 16, 2009 Sounds like he saw what was "out there" and he wants back in with you. Not good. I bet the girl he just so casually dated thought she was in a relationship if she still doesn't think they are in one now. Tread lightly and stay classy. The deal in church? Perfect. You need to continue to stay away from this guy for awhile unless he gives you every fiber of your mind and soul(not your heart- because the heart is deceiving) that he wants to change.
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