hisprincess41407 Posted December 15, 2009 Posted December 15, 2009 So my boyfriend of two years and 7 months broke up with me about 4 weeks ago and after a few day I began to find out that he had been cheating on me for the last 2 months and he was with that girl still but he promises that he didn't leave me for her. They were a couple their freshman year of HIGH SCHOOL and now we are all Juniors in college. We did start dating at the end of senior year but I think I am more of his college girlfriend. They have stayed kind of friends over the years but nothing like really serious, she has just recently gotten out of a 3 year relationship as well (I don't know if she cheated on him as well?) Anyway according to them they are in love and are already talking about getting married in the future. I know her ex and I talked to him about it but he went back to her and apparantly wanted to know if she cheated on him. As soon as he was back in her life she started having doubts about her new (I think rebound) relationship and so my ex tells me they might not even be together anymore. I looked up some info about rebounds and people say that if they are "in love" quickly that is more of a sign of a rebound and they aren't having sex anymore just sleeping over and cuddling and I read that doing stuff like that is a sign of a rebound too because they are just looking for the comfort that they have just lost. He says he's not in love with me anymore but the last time we got off of the phone he said I love you first..I just want to be with him, and we got in a big fight the day before we broke up so I think he is probably just confused and only looking at the bad.. I miss him, I love him. I am currently doing NC but I do want him back. Does he love her? Could he still love me?
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