star23 Posted December 15, 2009 Posted December 15, 2009 Hi there i need some advice, my ex broke up with me a few months ago. To cut to the chase he explained it was because he was confused about how he was feeling about me. Anyway although it was a struggle i managed to limit contact, which i think made us realise that we did miss each other so we got back together,. Everything has been grand so far, we have really enjoyed each others company and he has been great really attentive etc. However the other day he showed my an email reply from a mutual friend, just to really catch up on how she was doing. Anyway, i dont think he relised that i could also see what he had written. She had asked about us and said she was glad we are back together etc, and his reply was that he enjoys being with me and realised that he is happier with me than without, he said he was not sure if that the best reason to be together "but there we go". Since the break up all his friends said he was lost with out me etc, but i still have a naggling feeling, is he just with me out of routine? we have only been together for a year right enough. Should i let this go? i fell a bit confused and concerned. Please help
MassEmotions14 Posted December 15, 2009 Posted December 15, 2009 Something similar happened to me last year... I was thrilled that we were back together, but I [sIZE=2]was very insecure at first and very guarded. I think that's only natural, because you got let down and hurt. That eventually went away once I realized that if I continued to but my guard up, I was going to limit myself from truly being happy, so I just decided to go with it. When my ex broke up with me, he went on Match.com a month or so after we broke up… and once we got back together, I noticed he was still on the site. I was honest with him about my feelings towards that and my insecurities, and he was quick to take himself off and reassure me that this is what he wanted. Just be open and honest with your feelings - that's all anyone can ask for! [/sIZE]
Author star23 Posted December 15, 2009 Author Posted December 15, 2009 i know i have to say something, i just dont want him to think i am snooping around his emails, so i dont want him to feel guilty every time i bring up the break up, i feel like im stuck. He has given me no reason to think like this, i am the one that went snooping and found this! i dont know what to do ....
HeavenOrHell Posted December 15, 2009 Posted December 15, 2009 You weren't snooping around if you read it while he was there next to you. Maybe you both need to make your feelings clear? i know i have to say something, i just dont want him to think i am snooping around his emails, so i dont want him to feel guilty every time i bring up the break up, i feel like im stuck. He has given me no reason to think like this, i am the one that went snooping and found this! i dont know what to do ....
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