confusediam Posted December 15, 2009 Posted December 15, 2009 ok, so i dated this girl for 2 and a half years. I fell in love with her and she was my first. well, we broke up about 8 months ago, and she saw other people, as so did I. well about 4 months ago, i started dating my ex's best friend. My ex is in college, and she found out about us having sex, but she doesnt know we are dating. she thinks its just a thing we have I suppose. After she found that out, my ex started drinking a lot and started taking up other self destructive behaviors. She constantly blames me for them, for not only leaving her, but for taking her best friend too. I know she still loves me, her friends tell me, and she has told me too. On our what would be 3 year anniversary, she begged for me back. Its just that we had so many problems and im so happy with the girl I have now. But I cant lie, i still love my ex very very much. I feel terrible for everything thats happening to her, and i want to help her, and I want to be with her, but I want to be with the girl im with now... I just dont know what to do. Now please dont assume im just some 15 year old kid, im a 22 year old male, and i honestly need some opinions. should I stay with my girl im with now and hope it gets better? should i go back to my ex and try to help her with her problems and hope things for us will shape up? or should I just leave both of them and move on myself?
mark982 Posted December 15, 2009 Posted December 15, 2009 you started dating your present gf well after you and the ex were broke up. that means best friend is now game,but alittle low. it sounds like they weren't the best of friends or this wouldn't of happened. enjoy your new gf.
ka_lin Posted December 19, 2009 Posted December 19, 2009 Well it is difficult,you should talk with your ex,but if you still like her it sucks...couse if you break up and start all over(her friend will be pissed) and on the other hand(ex is f***ing her life...and maybe you will regret it...)why did u broke up ?:|
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