shadowsfall Posted December 15, 2009 Posted December 15, 2009 My living conditions aren't exactly guaranteeing me a lot of privacy these days. I live in a studio connected to a main house which shares a common wall with a families office. Well due to the lack on insulation we can basically hear everything going on between rooms. A girl I'm dating is ridiculously loud in bed and it seems like I can only drown out the sound with so much a/c/fan/music etc. Short of installing full blown acoustic padding, insulation or moving out what else can I do to help this situation, if anything? (By the way her place is off limits due to parental reasons). I know a lot of people wouldn't care about this, however I like where I currently live (except this issue) and don't want the family complaining to the property owner about this noise.
Pizzaman81 Posted December 15, 2009 Posted December 15, 2009 Stop banging her so hard. or tell her to just shutup or else this will be the last time....
EricaH329 Posted December 15, 2009 Posted December 15, 2009 Have you tried talking to her about this? I'm sure if you let her know, nicely, about the situation she'll keep quiet.
temple Posted December 15, 2009 Posted December 15, 2009 It's probably best to talk to her about it, I'm sure she would appreciate that. In my experience the more open you are talking about sex the better it gets
Author shadowsfall Posted December 16, 2009 Author Posted December 16, 2009 I haven't yet discussed it with her but I will soon. Up to this point I've just been dropping a not so subtle hint in the form of a pillow over the face. Seriously though, if she doesn't yet realize that she's a few decibels away from breaking glass then I'll be extremely disturbed with her self awareness.
ka_lin Posted December 19, 2009 Posted December 19, 2009 Neighbours must tolerate each other,in my country you can do anything between 8 am-10 pm,if someone was refurbishing they`r appartment and noises ocur there should be a tolerance,make a contract with the landlord if you are renting if it is yours then don`t worry Worst case scenario:are they gona call the police on the case of disturbing the peace...? i highly doubt it...
burning 4 revenge Posted December 19, 2009 Posted December 19, 2009 (edited) Well since she cant behave herself ground her to three months of felatio with no reciprocation and no penetration or oure probably going to have the 47 year old neighbor woman borrowing a cup of sugar from you really soon Edited December 19, 2009 by burning 4 revenge
alphamale Posted December 19, 2009 Posted December 19, 2009 A girl I'm dating is ridiculously loud in bed and it seems like I can only drown out the sound with so much a/c/fan/music etc. Short of installing full blown acoustic padding, insulation or moving out what else can I do to help this situation, if anything? . find a quieter girl
Author shadowsfall Posted December 19, 2009 Author Posted December 19, 2009 I guess if it came down to it I could always fight fire with fire and complain about how often their dog barks when they aren't home. I mean leave a freakin t.v. on or something, some people need to study. Maybe also about how the dog repeatedly craps on the yard right outside my door and no one bothers to pick it up. Sorry to turn this thread around a bit but now I realize that it's really not as much an issue of finding another girl as it is just trying to live comfortably in any given situation. With any girl, regardless of volume, they could hear us going at it if they wanted to. Would it be completely insane to ask the manager to pad the walls a little bit to reduce the noise transparency? I feel that both sides could benefit and enjoy a little more privacy if this was done. BTW Burning: Yes she is, how could you guess...
skydiveaddict Posted December 25, 2009 Posted December 25, 2009 stop having sex with her she wont make a peep
jw90063 Posted December 28, 2009 Posted December 28, 2009 My living conditions aren't exactly guaranteeing me a lot of privacy these days. I live in a studio connected to a main house which shares a common wall with a families office. Well due to the lack on insulation we can basically hear everything going on between rooms. A girl I'm dating is ridiculously loud in bed and it seems like I can only drown out the sound with so much a/c/fan/music etc. Short of installing full blown acoustic padding, insulation or moving out what else can I do to help this situation, if anything? (By the way her place is off limits due to parental reasons). I know a lot of people wouldn't care about this, however I like where I currently live (except this issue) and don't want the family complaining to the property owner about this noise. Just tell her to stop the acting. I honestly have never understood being extremely loud in bed. Nothing wrong with making noise, but if it is that extreme and becomes a problem..then something isn't right. I think most of it's an act.
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