makinitmine Posted December 15, 2009 Posted December 15, 2009 Ok so I posted on here in August of last year about my situation (http://www.loveshack.org/forums/showthread.php?t=160273) and got some feedback....if you don't want to refresh yourself there a quick rundown is this: 1) Got Married August '07 2) Find out August 1st '08 my wife cheated on me with an ex boyfriend 3) Find out the cheating was unprotected and she is now pregnant 4) Less than week after I find out she has miscarriage 5) Immediately after miscarriage she starts going out again drinking and partying with the same people she was with when she cheated. The Results of all this: I left her sorry ass September 1st '08 Anyways she also had a kid before we got together from some other dude who isn't around & basically since her daughter was 10 months old when I first started going out with my ex wife..... So here's where the current dilema is.....basically for her daughter's entire life (she's 4 and a couple months years old right now) she has known me as her dad.....however my ex wife and her family have completely convinced her I'm not her dad anymore so whenever someone calls me her dad she says "he's not my dad" or something like that.....oh yeah and almost a year after I left her the divorce papers went through and I've also been out of state going back to college (I just turned 23 a month ago).....but yeah so I come back home on winter break to find out my mom and step-dad are still calling my ex wife and they are all like still being grandma/grandpa stuff which I dunno I find really weird especially when my ex cuts me out completely and I'm nothing now......so yeah I dunno what to do bout this whole strange situation....I don't even know what I'm really looking for her lol just needed to say it out I guess
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