wonderinwhatsup Posted December 14, 2009 Posted December 14, 2009 Hey so my ex and I have been on again off again since we broke up in 2007. She has had a boyfriend for a while, and a couple of weeks ago she was talking about she had listened to "our band" for the first time in the two years. I called her out on it. She didnt really explain why she was talking about our songs or old memories. A couple of days later I texted her late at night (i was a lil drunk) suggesting that we get drinks. She then said that its not appropriate since she has a boyfriend and then blocked me from facebook. My buddy told me about a week later that she just broke up with her boyfriend. So to sum it up, I still miss her. I don't want to look pathetic by initiating conversation again (its been 4 weeks). It's just weird that she blocked me and quit talking because it was disrespectful to her boyfriend then breaks up with him a week later. What should I do guys?
Author wonderinwhatsup Posted December 15, 2009 Author Posted December 15, 2009 Cmon guys I really could use some feedback...
LostLamb Posted December 15, 2009 Posted December 15, 2009 If someone tells me never to contact them again then it is the end unless THEY initiate contact. She did the right thing blacking you as she had a boyf at the time and obviously loved him (so many people would have gone out for drinks with an ex). If she wants you back , she'll get in touch. My advice is to get on with your life and leave it instead of looking needy/predatory.
jms76 Posted December 15, 2009 Posted December 15, 2009 I agree with LostLamb. Trust me on this one..when they block you on FB, move on. Had that happen to me only because she was mad I dumped her. I tried to contact her which only made it worse. Sucks when they block you though....kind of like a kick in the balls.
Author wonderinwhatsup Posted December 15, 2009 Author Posted December 15, 2009 I don't know, it's just really weird because up until she blocked me we had been talking a lot and showing signs that she still misses me. I guess I just can't do anything. It's fine, I just feel bad because we promised we'd always talk on christmas...guess thats what they all say.
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