czechmate09 Posted December 14, 2009 Posted December 14, 2009 Ok...so you are seeing/talking to/dating a woman....and she tells you that she was never "promiscuous"...far from it was exactly the quote...now I know that everyone has their own views on sexuality, and "promiscuity" what is what isn't....I know what that means to me...but I would like others opinions of what number if you are a woman, you consider promiscuous....or guys...if a lady talks about promiscuity to you....what your thoughts of a promiscuous woman is. Anyway, first post...kind of vague...but would like your thoughts! Thanks!
Malenfant Posted December 14, 2009 Posted December 14, 2009 promiscuity = sleeping around. sleeping with people randomly, having lots of one night stands etc. not requiring any kind of relationship in order to have sex. most people have had a one night stand, but being promiscuious is doing this a lot. at least, thats how i see it. however, i dont judge people who do, its only a bad thing if you hurt people or end up with or give STDS or if you're attached while doing so without the consent of your partner.
boogieboy Posted December 14, 2009 Posted December 14, 2009 Shes trying to discourage people from thinking that she will have casual sex. She is probably saying this because she let herself get used as a FWB for a while, while she was hoping for a relationship and never got it. Sounds like a smokescreen to me, she was probably promiscuous at one time and is hiding it.
faf Posted December 14, 2009 Posted December 14, 2009 promiscuity = sleeping around. sleeping with people randomly, having lots of one night stands etc. not requiring any kind of relationship in order to have sex. most people have had a one night stand, but being promiscuious is doing this a lot. at least, thats how i see it. however, i dont judge people who do, its only a bad thing if you hurt people or end up with or give STDS or if you're attached while doing so without the consent of your partner. I concur with Malenfant's definition.
sonicranger Posted December 14, 2009 Posted December 14, 2009 I agree with the others. I mean if you want a number, me as a guy would say over 10 is promiscuous to me. That allows for quite a few high school/college hookups and a few longer relationships. My current girlfriend is 2 or 3 though I don't care enough about it to pigeonhole her to a specific answer. I'm at 6 myself, with two one-niters that I'd gladly give back. The bottom line is whatever silly conclusions you come to in your own head about what is and what isn't acceptable is the only part that matters.
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