Angel21 Posted December 14, 2009 Posted December 14, 2009 i met this guy 2 nights ago, extremely goodlooking and coz his so goodlooking, he probably thought i was just going give in to anything. I mentioned to him that i dont sleep with guys before i get married, which he was shocked but still showed alot of interest in me. wanted to constantly kiss me, but i wouldnt let him as i told him that i want to get to know him better first. he was constantly asking if i like him, and i said that he is a nice guy but i need to get to know him first. when he left the club, he sms'd me 2 minutes after that and for the rest of the evening in which i sms'd back. he then contacted me again today but with sms's showing alot of interest but at the same time, playing hard to get by indicating that i must say that i like him and just fall at his feet type of thing.. (i hope im making sense)... i then also started playing a little hard to get, by just ended the conversation after a few sms's as he was just not making sense. then he started contacting me again... he is acting in the way that he is interested but does not want to actually ask me out, he seems as though he wants me to make the first move as he probably gets this from all the girls... i then responed that we just dont understand eachother, and he replied that he doesnt understand what i mean and that i must have a good day and take care, i have not replied coz he is just pathetic. what should i do, maybe i should just not answer him for a few days and keep him wondering???? please help...
mortensorchid Posted December 14, 2009 Posted December 14, 2009 Don't answer him at all. This was obviously not meant to be here. I understand your trying hard to get, but he's being a little smug, don't you think?
boogieboy Posted December 14, 2009 Posted December 14, 2009 Youre not going to get what you want from this guy, so cut your losses. No matter what you do he isnt going to wonder what youre doing. He already knows he isnt going to get sex from you, so if he wants sex, as well as anything else, hes not going to get it. So to him, theres no point in being patient with you and in his mind...playing your game.
Author Angel21 Posted December 17, 2009 Author Posted December 17, 2009 thanks guys!! never replied, and not interested anymore
TheLoneSock Posted December 17, 2009 Posted December 17, 2009 i met this guy 2 nights ago, extremely goodlooking and coz his so goodlooking, he probably thought i was just going give in to anything. I mentioned to him that i dont sleep with guys before i get married, which he was shocked but still showed alot of interest in me. wanted to constantly kiss me, but i wouldnt let him as i told him that i want to get to know him better first. he was constantly asking if i like him, and i said that he is a nice guy but i need to get to know him first. when he left the club, he sms'd me 2 minutes after that and for the rest of the evening in which i sms'd back. he then contacted me again today but with sms's showing alot of interest but at the same time, playing hard to get by indicating that i must say that i like him and just fall at his feet type of thing.. (i hope im making sense)... i then also started playing a little hard to get, by just ended the conversation after a few sms's as he was just not making sense. then he started contacting me again... he is acting in the way that he is interested but does not want to actually ask me out, he seems as though he wants me to make the first move as he probably gets this from all the girls... i then responed that we just dont understand eachother, and he replied that he doesnt understand what i mean and that i must have a good day and take care, i have not replied coz he is just pathetic. what should i do, maybe i should just not answer him for a few days and keep him wondering???? please help... I don't really see what the problem is. You say he's pathetic, which means you think lowly of him, which means you aren't interested in him. If you aren't interested in him, then you know what to do. It seems to me that you're just playing games. He may be too, but that just means you're both being dumb. The fact that you don't f*ck before marriage is reason enough for him to not be interested. So it would seem neither of you are genuinely interested in each other, yet both of you are playing hard to get. See how 'pathetic' the whole situation is?
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