nekoxchaos Posted December 14, 2009 Posted December 14, 2009 A few months ago I started a thread about being broken up with before me and my ex's 1 year anniversary. He was my first bf, but he went to study abroad around the time he broke up with me and now his on his way back home. He broke up with me because " he wasn't happy " also because I know i was becoming needy and jeolous about things and I admit to all my faults. After the breakup I only went a week and a half without contacting him, I initiated it but later on he would start to initiate conversations himself. We could only talk on aim, but he would bring up some good memories we had together for which I felt uncomfortable about since every time I would say something about the break up or missing him "more then a friend" he would get upset and sign off. So when that happens ill just stop talking to him for a few days and later we would start having conversations again. I tried to be casual even though he still brings up some good memories we had together or sent me stuff that would hint something. At this point I would be confused, so I wrote him a email and told him we shouldn't talk for a while .... he said he'll miss it and seemed sad about it and that he really cares about me and means it and how he needed to see me when he gets back. So now his on a plane coming back, Im still a bit hurt about getting dumped... my sister told me I was too nice and offered to help him and be there for him when he was feeling "lonely" and needing someone to talk to after he dumped me . I know he said he wanted to see me when he gets back and he misses me alot , but I'm scared of my feelings being hurt again. Even though we would have nice conversations, part of me still wants more then that and my friends think that he really needs to earn my friendship.
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