Waitress Posted December 14, 2009 Posted December 14, 2009 Not necessarily thinking of giving up on men entirely but does anyone else go through times when they just want the opposite sex to leave them alone? I've done a moderate amount of dating this year and it's all exhausted me, I think. As much as it would be nice to be in a relationship I just don't know if I have it in me to keep talking to men right now. What have you done during these times? Obviously, going off on my own is a fine idea which I'm very comfortable with but I'm curious what others have experienced during these times.
harmfulsweetz Posted December 14, 2009 Posted December 14, 2009 Oh yes. All the time. Men are so annoying at times. Maybe give dating a breather for a time, enjoy spending time alone, and come back to it when you're a little less sick?
Yukikazi Posted December 14, 2009 Posted December 14, 2009 Oh yes. All the time. Men are so annoying at times. You women aren't strawberries and cream 24/7 yourselves
carhill Posted December 14, 2009 Posted December 14, 2009 I sat in Narita airport a few weeks ago and counted all the women I wasn't interested in. No animosity whatsoever, just disinterest. The cool thing about being a normal guy is that you can avoid the opposite gender just by not approaching them. It's easy
harmfulsweetz Posted December 14, 2009 Posted December 14, 2009 You women aren't strawberries and cream 24/7 yourselves No, I'm strawberries dipped in chocolate 24/7. As are all women Men are cheese and chocolate-gross 24/7, 365 days a year hehe.
Author Waitress Posted December 14, 2009 Author Posted December 14, 2009 Oh yes. All the time. Men are so annoying at times. Maybe give dating a breather for a time, enjoy spending time alone, and come back to it when you're a little less sick? Yeah. Thanks. Glad to feel the relating here. Last night I stopped in a Starbucks and sat drinking a hot beverage and surfing the Internet. It was great.
Author Waitress Posted December 14, 2009 Author Posted December 14, 2009 You women aren't strawberries and cream 24/7 yourselves No doubt. Although we are kinda cute most of the time!
Author Waitress Posted December 14, 2009 Author Posted December 14, 2009 I sat in Narita airport a few weeks ago and counted all the women I wasn't interested in. No animosity whatsoever, just disinterest. The cool thing about being a normal guy is that you can avoid the opposite gender just by not approaching them. It's easy Yeah, it's harder when one is the prey. Although, I am finding that popping on my ipod headphones is a good way to be left alone.
Yukikazi Posted December 14, 2009 Posted December 14, 2009 No, I'm strawberries dipped in chocolate 24/7. Iz dat so... So then the REALLY important question is... Milk, Dark or White? Men are cheese and chocolate-gross 24/7, 365 days a year hehe. Women love cheese and they go crazy for chocolate.. sounds like a good combo to me...
dreamergrl Posted December 14, 2009 Posted December 14, 2009 Just leave dating alone for a while. I think when one tries to hard when dating, it does become exhausting, very much so.
harmfulsweetz Posted December 14, 2009 Posted December 14, 2009 Iz dat so... So then the REALLY important question is... Milk, Dark or White? Men are cheese and chocolate-gross 24/7, 365 days a year hehe. Women love cheese and they go crazy for chocolate.. sounds like a good combo to me... Milk and White, great combo Cheese is lovely and so is chocolate, put together though? Gross.
Yukikazi Posted December 14, 2009 Posted December 14, 2009 Milk and White, great combo Excellent choices.. Now I want a White chocolate cocoa from argo tea....
D-Jam Posted December 14, 2009 Posted December 14, 2009 If you're sick of dating, then I agree to take a break. You might also want to better think about social things then so you can avoid the PUA's. Seen women who want to take a break, and yet they complain how men won't leave them alone. The problem is that they still go out to the meat markets and expect men to leave them alone. Not going to work. Do those hobbies and projects you probably have been wanting to do. Lord knows that's how I managed to make my life happy without dating or women...at least before I met my GF.
Boundary Problem Posted December 14, 2009 Posted December 14, 2009 Yeah, it's harder when one is the prey. Although, I am finding that popping on my ipod headphones is a good way to be left alone. Totally works. It is interesting that the female tourists still ask me for directions - I guess I look trustworthy, and not like a purse-snatcher, when I have my headphones on.
kizik Posted December 14, 2009 Posted December 14, 2009 I agree with the OP. I've been beating the chicks off with a stick, yet they still gravitate towards my undeniable sexiness. B*tches, leave me alone!
espec10001 Posted December 14, 2009 Posted December 14, 2009 Most men are dummies. Whether they are single as can be or married, they'll go gaga over a pretty lady. That's why you gotta play with them a little. Not too much to where you'll get them mad, but the key here is subtlety. Don't take men so seriously. That little boy inside of men never really goes away. In fact adults are really just little children inside grown up bodies. Don't forget, girls just wanna have fun, riiiiight?
kizik Posted December 14, 2009 Posted December 14, 2009 Most men are dummies. Hey - why don't we take this kind of talk elsewhere. You wouldn't like it if I said that about women.
espec10001 Posted December 14, 2009 Posted December 14, 2009 Hey - why don't we take this kind of talk elsewhere. You wouldn't like it if I said that about women. Well they are! Do you see how far they'll bend over backwards for a pretty lady? Let's say the most gorgeous girl came into your life, and she was stunningly beautiful, and had all the qualities you desired most, i.e. your dream girl, AND she appeared to be into you! Would you not do whatever it takes to be with her?
Yukikazi Posted December 14, 2009 Posted December 14, 2009 Well they are! Do you see how far they'll bend over backwards for a pretty lady? Let's say the most gorgeous girl came into your life, and she was stunningly beautiful, and had all the qualities you desired most, i.e. your dream girl, AND she appeared to be into you! Would you not do whatever it takes to be with her? You mean be a doormat? no
kizik Posted December 14, 2009 Posted December 14, 2009 Well they are! Do you see how far they'll bend over backwards for a pretty lady? Let's say the most gorgeous girl came into your life, and she was stunningly beautiful, and had all the qualities you desired most, i.e. your dream girl, AND she appeared to be into you! Would you not do whatever it takes to be with her? Believe it or not, princess, not all men will drop all their integrity and values just to bang a hot chick. Now please, take your man-hating elsewhere.
espec10001 Posted December 14, 2009 Posted December 14, 2009 You mean be a doormat? no Oh come now! Everything you wanted in a female, all your deepest desires, you could not resist! Muahahahahha!
Yukikazi Posted December 14, 2009 Posted December 14, 2009 Oh come now! Everything you wanted in a female, all your deepest desires, you could not resist! Muahahahahha! I'm not stupid.. that person dosen't exist in real life. Not to mention any man that turns into a puppy dog for a woman instantly looses his manliness in her eyes. Women want a man.. not a lapdog
carhill Posted December 14, 2009 Posted December 14, 2009 Most men are dummies. Yep, on the day my stbx told me she wanted a divorce, I did feel like a 9 year dummy. Since then, not so much Marriage teaches one a lot of things, one of which appearances aren't always what they seem to be. So... she was stunningly beautiful, and had all the qualities you desired most, i.e. your dream girl, AND she appeared to be into you! Would you not do whatever it takes to be with her? My first thought is ego feeder, then attention whore, then prove me wrong
espec10001 Posted December 14, 2009 Posted December 14, 2009 I'm not stupid.. that person dosen't exist in real life. Have you ever wondered how beauty just appears? How walking down the street or being out somewhere suddenly there appears beauty, seemingly out of thin air? Surely you have seen it. She knows you, she knows all men, she knows what resides in their hearts.
Author Waitress Posted December 14, 2009 Author Posted December 14, 2009 Just leave dating alone for a while. I think when one tries to hard when dating, it does become exhausting, very much so. Yeah, I agree. It's not that I was seeking men endlessly but allowing too much of my energy and focus to go into the ones I was getting to know. Thanks.
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