TremblingBluStar Posted December 14, 2009 Posted December 14, 2009 I'm writing this working on about 5 hour sleep, so forgive me if this comes off as more of an angry rant than I intend it to. With that out of the way, there are some disturbing thing I have noticed time and time again when it comes to online personals ladies post. No doubt men have just as many and just as severe patterns when it comes to their online personals. I wouldn't know, since I do not browse men's personals. In any regard, here are a few items I have noted that will almost guarantee that either no guy will write you, or if a guy does he is almost certainly either exceedingly desperate, or has not read your profile. These are just a few of the things I have noticed. I'm sure there are more I could add, so feel free to throw in some you think I have missed. Or tell me I'm full of ****, if you feel the need. Either way, one thing is certain, these types of personals will never go away! They have existed since the dawn of Internet personals, and will continue to exist. I just think it is funny to point them out and laugh every once in a while! So, here are some things I have noticed that make my blood boil: 1. Profiles that begin with "I can't believe I'm posting an online personal". Really. Like, oh my God! You must be such a loser! Either that, or you are exceedingly dense if you believe any guy with half a brain will give you the time of day after reading something so arrogant, condescending, insulting, and immature! Common sense, here, people!!! Variants include "I'm only here because my friends made me", or "I'm not sure why I'm here". Basically, anything that says to your potential audience "you are a bunch of losers and I don't know why I am stooping to your level" is a no no! 2. Profiles with fake, and/or misleading pics. I won't harp on people who post pictures of other people, since that clearly is not something that is right to do. What I have noticed lately, however, is a trend where people insecure about their appearance try to circumvent the fact that posting fake or old pics is a no no by posting pics of them with another person who is clearly much more attractive, and neglecting to indicate which one is the person posting the profile. I mean, come on! So, I get it. If you are a big girl, you probably won't get much attention from guys. However, using your skinny friend to lure guys into giving you attention by hoping they will believe they are getting in touch with your friend is just as bad, if not worse than posting a fake picture! Either way, once a guy meets you and finds himself not attracted to you, that's it! I guarantee you that, unless the guy is a total putz, there is no way he will stick around after finding out he has been mislead regarding your appearance. I don't give a crap how awesome your personality is! You are more likely to win the lottery than snare a guy using a bait and switch tactic! 3. Speaking of pics, I have noticed a vast number of women posting pics of them hanging all over not a female friend, but a guy! Do I even need to explain why, if you are trying to get the attention of men, it is a bad idea to post pictures of you hanging all over other men! This does not make you look desirable! It makes you look cheap and tawdry, not to mention lacking in intelligence! That's all I got for now. Like I said, feel free to add your own gripes, or tell me that I'm wrong!
Bejita463 Posted December 14, 2009 Posted December 14, 2009 1. Profiles that begin with "I can't believe I'm posting an online personal". Really. Like, oh my God! You must be such a loser! Either that, or you are exceedingly dense if you believe any guy with half a brain will give you the time of day after reading something so arrogant, condescending, insulting, and immature! Common sense, here, people!!! Variants include "I'm only here because my friends made me", or "I'm not sure why I'm here". Basically, anything that says to your potential audience "you are a bunch of losers and I don't know why I am stooping to your level" is a no no! That is an interesting take on it, but it is not quite why I dislike that particular line. I dislike it because it is overused. View 10 profiles and there's a fair chance that you saw a similar line. Probably more than once at that. The statement itself I take to be a result of social conditioning that used to say online dating is not only a bad idea, but dangerous. I've never taken it to be condescension. 2. Profiles with fake, and/or misleading pics. I won't harp on people who post pictures of other people, since that clearly is not something that is right to do. What I have noticed lately, however, is a trend where people insecure about their appearance try to circumvent the fact that posting fake or old pics is a no no by posting pics of them with another person who is clearly much more attractive, and neglecting to indicate which one is the person posting the profile. I mean, come on! So, I get it. If you are a big girl, you probably won't get much attention from guys. However, using your skinny friend to lure guys into giving you attention by hoping they will believe they are getting in touch with your friend is just as bad, if not worse than posting a fake picture! Either way, once a guy meets you and finds himself not attracted to you, that's it! I guarantee you that, unless the guy is a total putz, there is no way he will stick around after finding out he has been mislead regarding your appearance. I don't give a crap how awesome your personality is! You are more likely to win the lottery than snare a guy using a bait and switch tactic! Misleading pictures are just a hazard of online dating. The myspace angles bother me more than group photos, since most sites require you to identify which person you are if there is more than one in the shot. I will agree however, if someone looks like they are trying to hide something, I tend to assume they are. Also, you are correct that if I found out that the picture did not (within reason) accurately reflect the user's actual appearance, I would consider that an outright lie that would be a dealbreaker. In fairness though, just about any lie would be a dealbreaker in that same context. I won't pursue a relationship founded upon a lie, personally. Even a trivial one would set the expectation that I am going to continue accepting these lies, or that I am too dense to see they are occurring. 3. Speaking of pics, I have noticed a vast number of women posting pics of them hanging all over not a female friend, but a guy! Do I even need to explain why, if you are trying to get the attention of men, it is a bad idea to post pictures of you hanging all over other men! This does not make you look desirable! It makes you look cheap and tawdry, not to mention lacking in intelligence! Agreed, though guys tend to do this far, far more often than females do.
b52s Posted December 14, 2009 Posted December 14, 2009 I'm writing this working on about 5 hour sleep, so forgive me if this comes off as more of an angry rant than I intend it to. With that out of the way, there are some disturbing thing I have noticed time and time again when it comes to online personals ladies post. No doubt men have just as many and just as severe patterns when it comes to their online personals. I wouldn't know, since I do not browse men's personals. In any regard, here are a few items I have noted that will almost guarantee that either no guy will write you, or if a guy does he is almost certainly either exceedingly desperate, or has not read your profile. These are just a few of the things I have noticed. I'm sure there are more I could add, so feel free to throw in some you think I have missed. Or tell me I'm full of ****, if you feel the need. Either way, one thing is certain, these types of personals will never go away! They have existed since the dawn of Internet personals, and will continue to exist. I just think it is funny to point them out and laugh every once in a while! So, here are some things I have noticed that make my blood boil: 1. Profiles that begin with "I can't believe I'm posting an online personal". Really. Like, oh my God! You must be such a loser! Either that, or you are exceedingly dense if you believe any guy with half a brain will give you the time of day after reading something so arrogant, condescending, insulting, and immature! Common sense, here, people!!! Variants include "I'm only here because my friends made me", or "I'm not sure why I'm here". Basically, anything that says to your potential audience "you are a bunch of losers and I don't know why I am stooping to your level" is a no no! 2. Profiles with fake, and/or misleading pics. I won't harp on people who post pictures of other people, since that clearly is not something that is right to do. What I have noticed lately, however, is a trend where people insecure about their appearance try to circumvent the fact that posting fake or old pics is a no no by posting pics of them with another person who is clearly much more attractive, and neglecting to indicate which one is the person posting the profile. I mean, come on! So, I get it. If you are a big girl, you probably won't get much attention from guys. However, using your skinny friend to lure guys into giving you attention by hoping they will believe they are getting in touch with your friend is just as bad, if not worse than posting a fake picture! Either way, once a guy meets you and finds himself not attracted to you, that's it! I guarantee you that, unless the guy is a total putz, there is no way he will stick around after finding out he has been mislead regarding your appearance. I don't give a crap how awesome your personality is! You are more likely to win the lottery than snare a guy using a bait and switch tactic! 3. Speaking of pics, I have noticed a vast number of women posting pics of them hanging all over not a female friend, but a guy! Do I even need to explain why, if you are trying to get the attention of men, it is a bad idea to post pictures of you hanging all over other men! This does not make you look desirable! It makes you look cheap and tawdry, not to mention lacking in intelligence! That's all I got for now. Like I said, feel free to add your own gripes, or tell me that I'm wrong! Yeah I have noticed overweight women will post pics of themselves with a kid or a big dog in front of them while they're crouched down. And don't forget the "cute Peekaboo" pic of the overweight girl poking part of her body (front part) from behind a tree or a door way only revealing part of her figure....while the other 150 lbs remains unseen. Though she thinks she looks cute in this pic, you don't see anything. Of course any pic where a woman crops out a significant portion of her face (to keep the 2nd chin from being seen) is hiding something too.
Peaceful Guy Posted December 14, 2009 Posted December 14, 2009 hey, tremblingblustar, that's quite an interesting name! i wonder if it means what i think it means... hmmm.. also, you make some interesting/funny points about those profiles.. def. something for those trying internet dating to think about!!
temple Posted December 14, 2009 Posted December 14, 2009 lol. Well I guess you could use these 'gripes' as a method to quickly weed out the good profiles from the bad!
meerkat stew Posted December 14, 2009 Posted December 14, 2009 Well, until men start being more discerning, it matters not one bit what is on a woman's profile, if she has hot pics, she will get tons of response. As someone who has gotten very good at internet dating over the last few years, here are some things that prevent me from Emailing a woman. 1. Height requirement greater than 4" taller than she is. This is the top "shallowness indicator" for women in online dating. 2. Income requirement in the top income category when she herself is not in that category, and -especially- if she is a single mother. This shouts out "I'm fishing for a college fund for my kids." 3. Unimaginative or trite usernames "sunshinebreezes," "FSUfootballfan," etc. Surely you can come up with something better. 4. Taglines like "make me laugh." It's not my job to make you laugh, or make your day, etc. I'm looking for a woman who is baseline happy, and wants a man to add to her life, not create it. There is a big difference. 5. Code phrases like "financially secure," "ambitious," "goal-oriented." You can't hide your gold-digging nature that easily, we aren't stupid. We already know you won't consider dating us if our income is not significantly higher than yours, no need to remind us. 6. Too many pictures of your children, statements like "my children come first," well duh, we know your children come first, but we are not interested in being an entertainment provider at your whim or a human wallet. If you don't have time for your children and us at the same time, you shouldn't be dating. 7. Phrases that suggest you want a rushed relationship, especially if you are in the 35-40 age range, we are not sperm donors. 8. Long lists of criteria and "don't contact me if" lists. We all have such internal lists, it's tiresome and rude to post them on a profile though. I am just as concerned as to whether you are worthy of -my- time as you are about not wasting your time. That list is not going to prevent one email from guys 30 years older than you, they never read it. I -did- read it, though, and it makes you look rigid and high maintenance. 9. Fat/skinny pictures. Let me guess which are the recent ones . I will date a moderately overweight woman (up to 15-20 pounds ow), but not if she is being obviously deceptive about her weight in the profile. 10. Age lying. It's often quite obvious when a woman is lying about her age from pictures alone. Some women even -admit- to lying about their age in their profile so more searches include them, very bad idea. There are more, but those are the main ones for me. Thanks OP, felt good venting that out.
Author TremblingBluStar Posted December 14, 2009 Author Posted December 14, 2009 (edited) Just a quick response before lunch! Mexican food is sounding good right about now! 1. Height requirement greater than 4" taller than she is. This is the top "shallowness indicator" for women in online dating. To be honest, this used to be a huge insecurity for me. Not because I am short (5'10), but because I have dated a few women (who I met online, of course) who consistently made comments about me being "too short" and how hot I'd be if I were only over 6ft. Both were around 5'3. And very overweight. 4. Taglines like "make me laugh." It's not my job to make you laugh, or make your day, etc. I'm looking for a woman who is baseline happy, and wants a man to add to her life, not create it. There is a big difference. I can understand what you are saying. Far too many women I have dated thought I should be there to entertain them while they sit there like a log staring at the wall or out the window. Now, I consider myself an entertaining, interesting guy to date or hang out with - but it takes two to, well, you know! I think far too many people (guys and gals) who have boring or drab personalities think that in a relationship it is the role of the other party to relieve them of their boredom. One female friend I have in particular, who I can write an entire lecture about if I get out of hand, will complain constantly about how bored she is and how boring a date was. Problem is, she has absolutely no conversation skills. She reads no books (except the Twilight books, if that tells you anything), has no television or computer, and works at Walmart. Thus a conversation with her consists of her complaining about how meaningless her life is and how no guy has bothered to see what a great catch she is and rescue her from her meaningless existence. Don't be that girl! Or that guy! hey, tremblingblustar, that's quite an interesting name! i wonder if it means what i think it means... hmmm.. If you think it refers to A band called Trembling Blue Stars, you are correct! :-) It needs to be changed, though. Too many people assume I am a girl because of it. Not sure why. :-p Edited December 14, 2009 by TremblingBluStar
tigressA Posted December 14, 2009 Posted December 14, 2009 1. Height requirement greater than 4" taller than she is. This is the top "shallowness indicator" for women in online dating. 4. Taglines like "make me laugh." It's not my job to make you laugh, or make your day, etc. I'm looking for a woman who is baseline happy, and wants a man to add to her life, not create it. There is a big difference. I have a height requirement listed, but it's 5'5". I'm 5'7" and my last boyfriend was 5'5", so I have no problems with dating a guy of that height. I also have a weight/build requirement listed. I don't like overweight or big muscled guys because I'm a slight thing; I don't like feeling like I'm about to be crushed. I agree wholeheartedly with your #4. That stuff annoys the heck out of me when I see it.
InspiredbyYou Posted December 14, 2009 Posted December 14, 2009 lol. Well I guess you could use these 'gripes' as a method to quickly weed out the good profiles from the bad! I was thinking the exact same thing. I can appreciate your venting Trembling, especially with points 2 and 3 believe me it is the exact same thing with guy's profiles. They do that too we had another thread going about this last week somewhere here and were dicussing exactly that. Now about #1, I really think you shouldn't take it so personally. For a lot of people internet dating is a brand new concept even though it's been a around for a while and to a lot of people it is no different than going to a bar or whatever the venue might be, to some people who are trying it for the first time it is still quite scary and a weird concept. I wouldn't take that so personally and think that these women are trying to say that you are all losers and why is she there with the nerds? I think she probably means that she feels like a loser for having to use online to meet someone since she obviously hasn't got over the cyber hump when it comes to dating. Go easy on them, I would use that as a chance to show one of those scardy-cats the ropes....how's that for using it to your advantage!
Peaceful Guy Posted December 14, 2009 Posted December 14, 2009 If you think it refers to A band called Trembling Blue Stars, you are correct! :-) that's great!
sfsassy Posted December 14, 2009 Posted December 14, 2009 Well, until men start being more discerning, it matters not one bit what is on a woman's profile, if she has hot pics, she will get tons of response. As someone who has gotten very good at internet dating over the last few years, here are some things that prevent me from Emailing a woman. 1. Height requirement greater than 4" taller than she is. This is the top "shallowness indicator" for women in online dating. 2. Income requirement in the top income category when she herself is not in that category, and -especially- if she is a single mother. This shouts out "I'm fishing for a college fund for my kids." 3. Unimaginative or trite usernames "sunshinebreezes," "FSUfootballfan," etc. Surely you can come up with something better. 4. Taglines like "make me laugh." It's not my job to make you laugh, or make your day, etc. I'm looking for a woman who is baseline happy, and wants a man to add to her life, not create it. There is a big difference. 5. Code phrases like "financially secure," "ambitious," "goal-oriented." You can't hide your gold-digging nature that easily, we aren't stupid. We already know you won't consider dating us if our income is not significantly higher than yours, no need to remind us. 6. Too many pictures of your children, statements like "my children come first," well duh, we know your children come first, but we are not interested in being an entertainment provider at your whim or a human wallet. If you don't have time for your children and us at the same time, you shouldn't be dating. 7. Phrases that suggest you want a rushed relationship, especially if you are in the 35-40 age range, we are not sperm donors. 8. Long lists of criteria and "don't contact me if" lists. We all have such internal lists, it's tiresome and rude to post them on a profile though. I am just as concerned as to whether you are worthy of -my- time as you are about not wasting your time. That list is not going to prevent one email from guys 30 years older than you, they never read it. I -did- read it, though, and it makes you look rigid and high maintenance. 9. Fat/skinny pictures. Let me guess which are the recent ones . I will date a moderately overweight woman (up to 15-20 pounds ow), but not if she is being obviously deceptive about her weight in the profile. 10. Age lying. It's often quite obvious when a woman is lying about her age from pictures alone. Some women even -admit- to lying about their age in their profile so more searches include them, very bad idea. There are more, but those are the main ones for me. Thanks OP, felt good venting that out. The only part I disagree wth is I do mention age parameters. I was getting so many notes from way to old dudes (60 somethings to my 30 something.) and now I dont get nearly as many. That is all I mention though as I think the rest of it I can weed out on my own.
sfsassy Posted December 14, 2009 Posted December 14, 2009 I have a height requirement listed, but it's 5'5". I'm 5'7" and my last boyfriend was 5'5", so I have no problems with dating a guy of that height. I also have a weight/build requirement listed. I don't like overweight or big muscled guys because I'm a slight thing; I don't like feeling like I'm about to be crushed. I agree wholeheartedly with your #4. That stuff annoys the heck out of me when I see it. I'm 5'2 and a guy I dated was 4'9. It was just weird, but he was unusually short. I tend to like guys just a little taller than me, but don't list this as a requirement.
meerkat stew Posted December 14, 2009 Posted December 14, 2009 To be honest, this used to be a huge insecurity for me. Not because I am short (5'10), but because I have dated a few women (who I met online, of course) who consistently made comments about me being "too short" and how hot I'd be if I were only over 6ft. Both were around 5'3. And very overweight. Yes, I'm also 5'10, just under 5'11 actually (the magic number hehe), and am constantly amazed at the women who have called me "short" or "shorter," as in "I like that you are shorter." It makes me wonder what kind of fantasy world some women live in. Once I started doing well online, some of my friends got onboard. One is 5'8, one 5'9. Both better looking than me, really good looking guys. Both hilarious good company. Both "ladies man" types, moreso than me, who have always had lots of female attention, but wanted to try online because they weren't finding long term prospects out at night in the clubs and bars. Neither of them got -any- response, I mean NADA, over several months of trying. Admittedly, my job is higher profile than theirs, but none of us put our income numbers, both of them have great jobs, just not professional level. A female friend of mine's ex husband was dating online in the same market I was. They had remained friendly post divorce and he would give her the scoop on his internet dating. He was 6'4". He and I actually went out with some of the same women. With me, they were good dates, we had fun, they put on the "good girl" show for me. He slept with two of these about an hour into the date. Said they literally threw themselves at him. He also said about 60% of the women he took out wanted instant sex, he was turning most of them down. This revelation really opened my eyes about what goes on in online dating. A given reality we "short" guys have to deal with. Online just highlights it. Sorry, don't want to derail into a height thread, it is a huge issue in net dating though. I can understand what you are saying. Far too many women I have dated thought I should be there to entertain them while they sit there like a log staring at the wall or out the window. Now, I consider myself an entertaining, interesting guy to date or hang out with - but it takes two to, well, you know! This is a general trend also in online, and I bet many women would agree and always like to hear horror stories from women about their dates, as theirs are usually even funnier/more outrageous than men's tales. There are so many dull, witless people out there. My favorites are the ones who treat the date like some sort of H.R. red pencil interview, and expect me to put up with a 20 questions routine. I even had a woman tell me she wanted to give me her "cheap" test!?! Had another ask during the second cocktail if I had erectile dysfunction. I nixed the "cheap test" one and ended up "hate f___ing" the ED one on the second date until she couldn't walk straight.
meerkat stew Posted December 14, 2009 Posted December 14, 2009 The only part I disagree wth is I do mention age parameters. I was getting so many notes from way to old dudes (60 somethings to my 30 something.) and now I dont get nearly as many. That is all I mention though as I think the rest of it I can weed out on my own. That's totally understandable, the ones I'm talking about are the ones who put a long list of "don't contact me if" right in their profiles, and they are usually loooong lists.
b52s Posted December 14, 2009 Posted December 14, 2009 That's totally understandable, the ones I'm talking about are the ones who put a long list of "don't contact me if" right in their profiles, and they are usually loooong lists. What I think is lame, is when a woman says, "Contact me if you're good looking" or generically...."I'm looking for a guy with a great personality andis good looking" Okay, waht does this tell the guy emailing her? "Okay, I know I'm good looking, so I'll email her" But it's a subjective thing. It's silly to post in your profile that you're looking for a "good looking" or "handsome" man. What if the guy who is reading her profile doesn't think he's good looking? then what? is he screwed? LOL
Author TremblingBluStar Posted December 14, 2009 Author Posted December 14, 2009 (edited) 7. Phrases that suggest you want a rushed relationship, especially if you are in the 35-40 age range, we are not sperm donors. I had a recent experience with that on one of the free sites. I wrote a lady asking what her hopes and dream are. She replied saying she wants a family and kids and asks if that is what I want. I reply that I do, but not until I get my career going and find the right person. That must have been the wrong answer, because she didn't bother responding. The only part I disagree wth is I do mention age parameters. I was getting so many notes from way to old dudes (60 somethings to my 30 something.) and now I dont get nearly as many. That is all I mention though as I think the rest of it I can weed out on my own. I don't get emails from 60-somethings but I am 34, and I get plenty of messages from women in their late 30's/40's, overweight, with 3+ kids, divorced two time over, saying "we should get to know each other". No offense to people with a large number of kids or who are divorced, but I am neither. There is a definite gap in life experience, and I do not think people online take that into account. This is assuming they even bother reading my profile and thinking things through before emailing me. One never knows! Edited December 14, 2009 by TremblingBluStar
b52s Posted December 14, 2009 Posted December 14, 2009 I had a recent experience with that on one of the free sites. I wrote a lady asking what her hopes and dream are. She replied saying she wants a family and kids and asks if that is what I want. I reply that I do, but not until I get my career going and find the right person. That must have been the wrong answer, because she didn't bother responding. I don't get emails from 60-somethings but I am 34, and I get plenty of messages from women in their late 30's/40's, overweight, with 3+ kids, divorced two time over, saying "we should get to know each other". No offense to people with a large number of kids or who are divorced, but I am neither. There is a definite gap in life experience, and I do not think people online take that into account. This is assuming they even bother reading my profile and thinking things through before emailing me. One never knows! How bout a friggin HOT Latina who had 4 kids, and they're already GROWN? True story, one online...saw her somewhere online...friggin' hot body, early 40's (yeah suprised she had that many kids that are ADULTS at that age?) hard to buy Anyhow, friggin' model material That being said, would you date her?
meerkat stew Posted December 14, 2009 Posted December 14, 2009 but not until I get my career going That's one of the third rails I learned early One of the best ways to get rid of a pesky woman (or a telemarketer for that matter) is to tell her you are contemplating bankruptcy or are having career troubles. That sonic boom you hear will be her exiting the building. OK, that's a bit unfair, but also true a scary amount of the time.
Author TremblingBluStar Posted December 14, 2009 Author Posted December 14, 2009 How bout a friggin HOT Latina who had 4 kids, and they're already GROWN? That being said, would you date her? Probably not. For one, I'm not attracted to Latina women. There have been exceptions, but they are few and far between. For another, it doesn't matter that the kids are already grown.
Author TremblingBluStar Posted December 15, 2009 Author Posted December 15, 2009 Here are a few online profiles I recently ran into that made me go http://www.plentyoffish.com/viewprofile.aspx?profile_id=13633588 Here the ladies About Me and First Date sections are nothing but a series of dots. Nice. I guess she figures being "hot" is good enough. This is one of the scary ones, IMO: http://www.plentyoffish.com/viewprofile.aspx?profile_id=13221914 Where to start? Cute girl. Her first sentence is "I have put myself through school, have my own home, support myself, and expect the same in a man." Wow! How inviting! Instead of beginning the About Me section with something, oh I don't know, about her, she starts out with a list of demands! Not unreasonable demands, mind you (except the putting myself through school. What if a guy has a trust fund or scholarship?), but still off putting at the beginning. Then the continues: I am NOT here for sex so please dont message me if thats what you're here for. I want a real man, who takes care of himself and knows how to treat a lady. First off, ever hear of an apostrophe? Second, of course a man is looking for sex! For one, he's a man! For another, that is part of any serious relationship! Unless she is looking for the 90 year-old sugar daddy type! Or an eunuch. Next sentence: This internet dating stuff is far from ideal but short of frequenting bars-how do you meet people? Umm... anywhere? Everywhere? Last I checked, people still do go out in public. Not as if we are secluded in our homes with a straight tunnel from home to bars! Either way, not my problem! Bitch about your life to your therapist or your mom! Next line: I have been told by several guys now that they almost didnt message me because i'm intimidating I'd use a different word than intimidating. Next: Humor is a must, I love to laugh and joke around. As was commented on earlier, duh! How many people would say humor is a definite no! I hate to laugh! Okay. I've had coworkers and classmates who would throw a **** fit if someone made a joke, other than them, but they didn't possess the self-insight to realize they did this. I'm not saying my online personal is perfect. However, it is far from being as off putting as this one is! What are some people thinking when they write this stuff?
Author TremblingBluStar Posted December 15, 2009 Author Posted December 15, 2009 Just had to comment on this one: http://www.plentyoffish.com/viewprofile.aspx?profile_id=10823854 Nothing wrong with the text, aside from rampant errors in grammar, spelling, and punctuation. However the pics: First one is okay. Nice smile. Cut out the person she is with (probably because it is a guy), but that means we can't see anything but her head. Second pic - her being man handled by a guy. Granted, she cut his head out, but why do people not get that these are personal pics! We don't want to see images of a potential date in loving bliss with their last man toy!!! Last pic - oh, God. Where to start. Drunk. With a shot. Boobs hanging out. Classy. Guess she isn't the wanting to be taken seriously type!
b52s Posted December 15, 2009 Posted December 15, 2009 Probably not. For one, I'm not attracted to Latina women. There have been exceptions, but they are few and far between. For another, it doesn't matter that the kids are already grown. Well, she's one of those latinas that are more of a "Spainard" blood in her than the "Inca Indian" look. Kind like the hotties you see on Univision or any of those Spanish Soap Operas...they look more Caucasian than latin...even though they are latin I suppose.
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