berrieh Posted December 14, 2009 Posted December 14, 2009 So, kind of a complicated situation. I'm fairly sure one of these guys - likely this guy, as he's the only 1 staying in the area and the 1 who initiates most interaction - likes either myself or my friend, but it's hard to tell who. My friend sort of noticed him first (but not met him first and no dibs-calling) so I'd never go after the guy, but if he was into me, I could totally date him. It's pretty doubtful he'd be into us both since our looks and personalities are both quite different. There are actually 3 of us girls who hang out, but 1 is basically taken. His group has been hanging around mine, and he initiates most of the stuff. Usually, he speaks somewhat to me - but I am the most out-going of the group - and he seems to make a point not to pay anyone too, too much attention. I am the 1 he texted and the only 1 who has his phone # (he gave it to me, initiated that). Is there any good way to figure this out? I might even just wanna be friends with this guy - he and all his friends are just awesome - and I wouldn't be upset if he and my friend hit it off. It's just kind of a mystery I wanna solve at present. I hate wondering.
temple Posted December 14, 2009 Posted December 14, 2009 Who knows - he could be interested in you but he could also be using you (as the self-proclaimed outgoing one) as a way to get to her. In all likelihood, he could easily like both of you. Just because you have different looks/personalities doesn't mean he'll only go for one. Most people have preferences but not stipulations!
phineas Posted December 14, 2009 Posted December 14, 2009 I think he likes the one he thinks will sleep with him with the least amount of effort.
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