LostInLA Posted December 14, 2009 Posted December 14, 2009 I need some guidance here, haven't dated in a long time so..yah.. I was approached by a guy that I've seen around for a while at my local hangouts over a week ago. The next night I saw him out again, we ended up chatting a lot and he ended up asking me out for a low key date for the next day. He got my number and called me the next day to confirm the date. Our date was fine, we went to a museum and chatted. He asked me a lot of questions and I tried to do the same. He didn't try anything like holding my hand or a kiss at the end of night. He gave me a hug when he took me home. I've seen him out several times since then and we always end up chatting a lot. The last time I saw him out was on Friday and we ended up chatting again and at the end of the night he said to let him know if I want to go ice skating sometime. So, that's about it. What I'm wondering is: 1. Is he interested in me as more than a friend? 2. If he is, why didn't he just ask me out? 3. I'm not sure how I feel about him, I would like to go ice skating with him, should I call him soon or just wait to see how things go when I see him again. We hang out at the same bars so I will most likely see him again on Thursday and/or Friday. 4. Any other opinions/thoughts are welcome! Thanks!
temple Posted December 14, 2009 Posted December 14, 2009 It sounds like he's just shy (I really doubt he'd ask you ice skating just to be your friend, it's not as though you were friends to begin with). If you're not sure if you're interested I'd wait until you see him in the bar. It'll give you time to think what you really want.
Author LostInLA Posted December 14, 2009 Author Posted December 14, 2009 Hmm ok... I guess I'm being shy too but trying to be flirty at the same time. I'm not really sure I want to get into anything with anyone but I did enjoy our date and his company so far. Maybe he's doing the same? lol
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