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Hmmm never heard of that!?? Could it be related to her possible illness and she is bleeding internally? Cysts can produce internal bleeding sometimes...

 

I study Medicine and yes, ovarian cancer can cause vaginal bleeding.

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Oh boy. You need to be honest with yourself. Is your sexual attraction to her destroyed by this dried blood? If it's that, and ONLY that, it could simply be a symptom that is fixed with her treatment. If it's not onlt that, I'd leave her. But if it's fixable, and a symptom, and knew it would go away, I'd stay.

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Possibly the OP is trolling (because I find it hard to believe that he doesn't correlate his girlfriend's unnatural bleeding to a medical condition):

 

Break up with her right now, without being completely honest -- let her know that you simply don't feel compatible and that it's best if you both move on. Exit her life cleanly -- let her know you feel it will be easier for both of you to move on if you have no contact. Don't give her hope where there is none.

 

If she does have a serious medical condition, and you then decide to bow out, it won't matter why you're leaving. She will be even more devastated and feel it is about her health problems, and this will simply compound the stress she will be under at that time.

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I had just looked up what it was when I first posted what it was. It makes sense that there'd be dries blood. I was using her issues as an excuse not to have sex with her cause I don't wanna make it worse (I know, flame me now), but maybe I was right?

 

I don't know if it's related to her illness or if it's the sole reason why I have this issue. But as I think about it, it just may be it. I will stay with her and see how it goes. I don't want to leave her now... She needs me. I do care for her and I do love her, but it's not fair to her what I don't tell her. I could go on and on.

 

I thank you all for your support and input. Her appointment is Friday. I'll be taking her in.

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