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I want to share this information with my fellow men out there. Ladies - feel free to comment or add to this. Even when your lady friend claims she had the date of her life, a good time or is excited to see you again - here are some signs I've picked up that she might not quite be telling the truth .... This is some signs I've picked up on texting tendencies which have proven themselves out. Note - if it matters - all of these dates are from online dating sights. Also note - these responses are all from women who wanted a 2nd/3rd or 4th date:

 

1. If the normal response time for her text is say 5 minutes (after you text her). After the date you get a response time of say 1 hour - you are in trouble

2. If she was flirty and friendly in text before the date - and now you get a very "matter of fact" answer - you are in trouble.

3. If the text you receive after your date is suddenly short - you are in trouble.

4. If the text says "ok - I am up for it /will go out again/guess so" type of comments - you are in trouble.

5. If you get no text at all - you are flushed to the point of no return

 

Enjoy

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Don't really agree with the first one. Do men really think they deserve a womans undivided attention after the first few dates? Woah.

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After my last date I didn't text him at all, but I'm still mildly interested.

 

I just want to take it slow.

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1. If the normal response time for her text is say 5 minutes (after you text her). After the date you get a response time of say 1 hour - you are in trouble

2. If she was flirty and friendly in text before the date - and now you get a very "matter of fact" answer - you are in trouble.

3. If the text you receive after your date is suddenly short - you are in trouble.

4. If the text says "ok - I am up for it /will go out again/guess so" type of comments - you are in trouble.

5. If you get no text at all - you are flushed to the point of no return

 

Enjoy

 

1. Maybe she was having a bath.

2. Yes. "Matter of fact" texts/emails being sent regularly mean you are being strung along. These emails don't require effort.

3. I don't know. There are some cute things that can be said in few words.

4. No. You are being too sensitive. Sometimes people email the gist of what they mean without picking the perfect word.

5. A no response. Well it depends if your text asked a question.

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This is a good reason to stay away from texting entirely until you get to know the person after a significant number of dates. Texting in and of itself is not going to make someone more or less interested in you, but will cause you to waste time pondering whether a 1 hour as opposed to 5 minute response means anything and other frivolous questions.

 

I have learned this from my own mistakes in the past. Text and phone contact in the very early stages of dating should be very brief and mostly limited to asking out on dates. If there is a very strong and obvious connection, you can talk a bit longer, but being brief generally seems to be the best way.

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I often don't get back to people as soon as they text me, I don't think it garners how interested I am in a person, I just don't want to text back straight away, can't text back straight away, have a life etc. However, if a person doesn't get back to you until two-three or more days later, then I'd be a little worried.

 

2)May not have time to write something cute, and flirty, may not have the 'appropriate response'. I've been known to send cute, flirty emails/texts one time, the next I just answer the questions posed, maybe ask a few and it isn't flirty. It doesn't make me any less interested. I just don't have the time/ not in the mood to do it.

 

3) Again-could be a time issue. If she's texted, chances are, she's interested.

 

4) Again-too sensitive. She's answering you! What is offputting is when a guy reads too much into text/email communication. It could be a sign that she's no longer interested, but there are various things it could be.

 

5) Well, if she doesn't respond, then you may be onto something.

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