nmyownskn Posted December 14, 2009 Posted December 14, 2009 I've worked at the same company for almost nine years and I've talked to the same people for about the same amount of time. I have a male friend that takes time to small talk (been this way for years) about kids, vacation, sports, and things going on at work. To my surprise he recently came on to me and I was so shocked I walked off. I was so flattered by his comment and it was so unexpected. The problem is we are both married and I have not had a problem with temptation but I find myself thinking about what he said to me. Is it something missing in my marriage that has me so flattered by him?
an hero Posted December 14, 2009 Posted December 14, 2009 It is normal to have thoughts like if somebody pays you special attention, especially if you are attracted to him. You've got to make sure you don't put yourself in a position where something could happen. If I was you I would tell my husband what happened, and make it clear to your workmate that you don't want him to say things like again.
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