Gutts31 Posted December 13, 2009 Posted December 13, 2009 I have been with a amazing woman for 2 years and we got engaged and in the last 3 months all the crap i have done wrong in the relationship has come to a head, basically i was a prideful controlling prick and also i had no drive to improve my situation. About a week and a half ago we were in the process of working on OUR crap by goin to a coucelor and it wasnt working and we got into a arguement over her drinking and i broke it off with her, after about a week i have come to some hardcore realizations about what i have been doing and what i need to do, i am for the first time in my life ready to put aside my pride and be the person she needs and wants. My problem is is when i called her to let her know this she tells me she is moving on and already hanging out with this other guy. I am not upset with her for doing this in fact i want her to be happy more than i want her to be with me but the things that she is doing now are so out of character for her that i dont know what to think, but my plan is i know what i have to do i am going to get off my ass and put my life together and maintain no contact with her so she can miss and just push on making myself better but my question is does no contact ever work?
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