LovelyDaze Posted December 13, 2009 Posted December 13, 2009 What do you think of a guy that: * Is 31,dumps his GF(me) for an 18 y.o. former escort(yes that kind)from Vegas. * The 18 y.o fiancee' blogged that she traded sex to get money to pay for her tattoos(seriously) * Gets engaged to her after only TWO WEEKS of knowing her. * Still begs his former GF (me) to stick around "just in case" he finally leaves her. * Tells everyone we know that he doesn't trust his new fiancee' * Still is set to marry her anyway. * Is thrilled to go to war in Afghanistan again to get away from the new fiancee because she texts, calls and e-mails up to 50x plus a day * Won't tell her to STOP smothering him anyway * Wants "one more night" with me before he heads to war * Said at least 7-8 times that he knows for a fact the fiancee won't last * Said he hopes his fiancee' will "forget" or "lose interest" while he's away. * Said he hopes I won't. * Has dumped a fiancee' years before he met me just so he won't worry about her cheating while he was over seas. * Said after he returns from war, he will keep his room at his brother's apartment, REGARDLESS of him getting married. * Never wants children but his fiancee' does desperately. Is he a great catch or what?
Ariadne Posted December 13, 2009 Posted December 13, 2009 So what? He likes you and likes the 18 yr old girl.
You'reasian Posted December 13, 2009 Posted December 13, 2009 What do you think of a guy that: * Is 31,dumps his GF(me) for an 18 y.o. former escort(yes that kind)from Vegas. * The 18 y.o fiancee' blogged that she traded sex to get money to pay for her tattoos(seriously) * Gets engaged to her after only TWO WEEKS of knowing her. * Still begs his former GF (me) to stick around "just in case" he finally leaves her. * Tells everyone we know that he doesn't trust his new fiancee' * Still is set to marry her anyway. * Is thrilled to go to war in Afghanistan again to get away from the new fiancee because she texts, calls and e-mails up to 50x plus a day * Won't tell her to STOP smothering him anyway * Wants "one more night" with me before he heads to war * Said at least 7-8 times that he knows for a fact the fiancee won't last * Said he hopes his fiancee' will "forget" or "lose interest" while he's away. * Said he hopes I won't. * Has dumped a fiancee' years before he met me just so he won't worry about her cheating while he was over seas. * Said after he returns from war, he will keep his room at his brother's apartment, REGARDLESS of him getting married. * Never wants children but his fiancee' does desperately. Is he a great catch or what? Sounds iffy to me. Marriage is a major life decision, should take time to build and requires time together. Personally, I would want to spend a lot of time with a person before even considering marriage - but that's me.
Island Girl Posted December 13, 2009 Posted December 13, 2009 Why are you still talking to him or even wanting to know about his CLEARLY dysfunctional life. Every single thing written is reason enough to STAY AWAY. But you are persisting in speaking with him and about him. So at this point it becomes nothing to do with him and everything to do with you. Get out of the drama. Close that chapter and move on to better things. Don't look, fish, or entertain discussion about him and what is going on with him. And absolutely do not talk to him at all. If you ignore this? Well then you have made your bed. You know what it looks like and what it feels like - you know it is messed up and not what is best for you. If you stay you know what you are getting and then should look at why you would participate in head games and DRAMA. What are you getting out of it? Then fix THAT so you don't allow yourself to get sucked anymore.
TheLoneSock Posted December 13, 2009 Posted December 13, 2009 Lol, this guy belongs in a cartoon. Are you really bugging over this guy? I would think he wouldn't even warrant a post about him on here. Forget the piece of sh*t.
Author LovelyDaze Posted December 13, 2009 Author Posted December 13, 2009 Why are you still talking to him or even wanting to know about his CLEARLY dysfunctional life. Every single thing written is reason enough to STAY AWAY. But you are persisting in speaking with him and about him. So at this point it becomes nothing to do with him and everything to do with you. Get out of the drama. Close that chapter and move on to better things. Don't look, fish, or entertain discussion about him and what is going on with him. And absolutely do not talk to him at all. If you ignore this? Well then you have made your bed. You know what it looks like and what it feels like - you know it is messed up and not what is best for you. If you stay you know what you are getting and then should look at why you would participate in head games and DRAMA. What are you getting out of it? Then fix THAT so you don't allow yourself to get sucked anymore. Oops and Oh no. This was meant to be sarcastic. Hence the tag of him being a "great catch" and things. I've posted and advised many on here to please do NC if they can. Me? I am one of many who has to work along side their ex. Now since he is going to Afghanistan, I am incredibly relieved and know that having a year or more of NC from him will do wonders. Sorry I was being too cerebral...I was hoping to catch the eye of LS members who feel THEIR EXES are the worst. But mine has got to be the worst of the bunch. I welcome you to read my earlier posts. I just wanted hurt people to know that they may not have it as bad. BTW...I have no intention on getting back with that as$wipe. That's why I posted this to show WHY.
Island Girl Posted December 13, 2009 Posted December 13, 2009 Oops and Oh no. This was meant to be sarcastic. Hence the tag of him being a "great catch" and things. I've posted and advised many on here to please do NC if they can. Me? I am one of many who has to work along side their ex. Now since he is going to Afghanistan, I am incredibly relieved and know that having a year or more of NC from him will do wonders. Sorry I was being too cerebral...I was hoping to catch the eye of LS members who feel THEIR EXES are the worst. But mine has got to be the worst of the bunch. I welcome you to read my earlier posts. I just wanted hurt people to know that they may not have it as bad. BTW...I have no intention on getting back with that as$wipe. That's why I posted this to show WHY. Good. Sorry I misunderstood then. I'm glad you will soon have some desperately needed space and not have to even see him. Because yes - he is pretty damn rotten.
Author LovelyDaze Posted December 14, 2009 Author Posted December 14, 2009 Yep. I plan to take a break from dating until I can learn to enjoy my own company. You know, reading a good back on a quiet Saturday, watching my favorite movie with a big bowl of popcorn, etc. I've been spending time with friends more and the pain has lessened tons. My ex is a jerk with no mirror..he doesn't see it and doesn't care to either...
Hi.P.O'Crit Posted December 14, 2009 Posted December 14, 2009 Neither Satan or Lucifer would put up with that bs.
Author LovelyDaze Posted December 14, 2009 Author Posted December 14, 2009 Neither Satan or Lucifer would put up with that bs. LMAO! I know. My ex is a unique kind of as$hole. He really believes the BS he dishes out and kindly expect you to sniff it like a bouquet of roses. Reading all the things he is right now continues to remind me to stay clear of this moron.
XKatieX Posted December 14, 2009 Posted December 14, 2009 He doesn't just sound like a jerk he sounds REALLY messed up in the head. I'm really sorry you had to go through all that..he will get what he deserves though, he'll end up being alone for sure.
Zeegagge Posted December 14, 2009 Posted December 14, 2009 I was hoping to catch the eye of LS members who feel THEIR EXES are the worst. But mine has got to be the worst of the bunch. Hey, dont forget, my ex left you speechless in an earlier post ;-) Regardless, yah, it sounds pretty bad. I feel like you and I are on some weird wavelength...
Author LovelyDaze Posted December 14, 2009 Author Posted December 14, 2009 He doesn't just sound like a jerk he sounds REALLY messed up in the head. I'm really sorry you had to go through all that..he will get what he deserves though, he'll end up being alone for sure. Hey Zeegagge, I remember yours! We need to get ourselves some idiot-radar next time, right? Thanks XKatieX.. That's what my friends and co-workers think too. They say that this is a terrible road he is on. Always dodging relationships like snowballs. He didn't want one with me anymore & he is trying to slinky away from his current fiancee' just by sheer time and distance. Can you believe that? He HOPES she will forget him in the course of a year and a half...but what if she doesn't just conveniently forget him as he thinks will happen? He's such a big idiot.
LucreziaBorgia Posted December 14, 2009 Posted December 14, 2009 I don't think of a guy like that as Satan or Lucifer. Demons/devils/etc trap you. He freed you from himself, rather than trapping you with him in relationship hell. It sort of reminds me of the movie Jacob's Ladder where Jacob was seeing demons menacing him, when really they were angels trying to get him to let go so that he could move on to a better place.
tVII Posted December 14, 2009 Posted December 14, 2009 wow. u have unbelievable strength. i know i can do that! i, too have to work with my ex and what she does and from what i hear it could make me go crazy. i think my ex and someone i know are going out behind my back. and the curiousness drives me crazy! i focus on moving on but how do you ignore or just fight all of it?
Beeotch Posted December 14, 2009 Posted December 14, 2009 What do you think of a guy that: * Is 31,dumps his GF(me) for an 18 y.o. former escort(yes that kind)from Vegas. * The 18 y.o fiancee' blogged that she traded sex to get money to pay for her tattoos(seriously) * Gets engaged to her after only TWO WEEKS of knowing her. * Still begs his former GF (me) to stick around "just in case" he finally leaves her. * Tells everyone we know that he doesn't trust his new fiancee' * Still is set to marry her anyway. * Is thrilled to go to war in Afghanistan again to get away from the new fiancee because she texts, calls and e-mails up to 50x plus a day * Won't tell her to STOP smothering him anyway * Wants "one more night" with me before he heads to war * Said at least 7-8 times that he knows for a fact the fiancee won't last * Said he hopes his fiancee' will "forget" or "lose interest" while he's away. * Said he hopes I won't. * Has dumped a fiancee' years before he met me just so he won't worry about her cheating while he was over seas. * Said after he returns from war, he will keep his room at his brother's apartment, REGARDLESS of him getting married. * Never wants children but his fiancee' does desperately. Is he a great catch or what? LMAO LMAO LMAO LMAO LMAO LMAO LMAO Hilarious stuff. He is neither, he is a lost, confused and foolish soul. While my ex did not do all of that he did many foolish things too...hich involved dating and having a girl move in with him whom he knewww darn well he didn't love and that she as a rebound. While together he was still reaching out to me, not like your ex who expected you to be around, but I could tell he made up random reasons to talk to me and be around me, and he also never spoke about this girl or when he did it was always negative things. From my experience, when men are confused or torn in love they often do waaaaaaaaaaaaaaay more ridiculous and foolish things than women do. They take it to extreme levels and often involve other women in it. It is infuriating and upsetting but also pathetic and makes me feel more sorry for them like they are little children acting out, versus seeing them as evil. Pray for that boy cuz Lord knows he needs it...*smh*
CaliGuy Posted December 14, 2009 Posted December 14, 2009 OP, your post would be hilariously funny -- if it wasn't true.
trueblue72ny Posted December 14, 2009 Posted December 14, 2009 Holy! him leaving sounds like a present. Christmas came early for you
Author LovelyDaze Posted December 14, 2009 Author Posted December 14, 2009 I don't think of a guy like that as Satan or Lucifer. Demons/devils/etc trap you. He freed you from himself, rather than trapping you with him in relationship hell. It sort of reminds me of the movie Jacob's Ladder where Jacob was seeing demons menacing him, when really they were angels trying to get him to let go so that he could move on to a better place. Hey LucreziaBorgia! Yeah, I saw Jacob's Ladder and I remember how vicious the demons around him were, even the woman he loved was one sometimes! That is how I need to look at my ex...he's blessing me with getting clean out of "relationship purgatory." He said a strange quote on his Facebook just the other day...it said something like, "Do you think God sometimes poses as the Devil to get our attention?" Wonder if he means..himself?
Author LovelyDaze Posted December 14, 2009 Author Posted December 14, 2009 You guys are actually making me laugh! Thanks a million to each and every one who's posted. Read them all TWICE! Beeotch, you especially had a point of how your ex only talks about the current girl in negative tones. My ex ALWAYS and I mean 99% of the time, he's bitching about her 50x a day texting, nagging and demanded to know where he is EVEN though she lives 1500 miles away (what's the point, right?) He is so creepy. Like a stranger in a rusty van with dark tinted windows. I need to leave this joker behind forever. Still can't get it out of my head...he WANTS to go to Afghanistan to get away from his fiancee'. Geez.
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