kgyula Posted December 13, 2009 Posted December 13, 2009 so here's my story in a few words... i've met a girl around 3 weeks ago on the net, we are from the same town but she studies in a different one. we've dated after 1 week of talk. the date went well, and we ended up in a club. Well, it actually went so well that we've ended kissing like crazy in the back seat of the car. I'm not the kind of guy who usually expects more then a kiss from a date but it happened. The following 3-4 days went ok, we've met and tried to know better each other. Then she went back to college. Everything went fine unil i've got an invitation to a training which was 500km away and by coincidence i needed to drive through the town where she studies. I didn't expected her to invite me so I've said her that maybe we could meet for an hour or two the day i travel through. But the night before my jurney she called me and said that she would like me to come and sleep at her aparment . Well, i rejected her because we were together for about a week + it was 12am and I was tired as well. And since then her level of interest just went down, to such a level that this weekend she didn't answared the phone/messages and argued tonight with the fact that she was at a very important training and she concentrated totaly on that. (now seriously, nometter what kind of thing i am involved in.... personally i don't forget that i have a gf... or in this case a bf). The last time we've talked she proposed us to talk about this (she will come back in 3 days) personally because we must fix this (asking her if she wants to meet in order to broke up she said no) now, i think that the past 2 weeks show that we expect different things from each other and that as soon as i don't cope with her wishes she shifts her focus. in addition to that she seems quite focused on the sexual part of the relationship (and it may sound strange but i don't want a relationship based only on this) and i don't want to end up being "used" in this relationship. so what do you think ? ps. i may forgot lot's of details but generally this is the main story
HOTGIMMICK Posted December 14, 2009 Posted December 14, 2009 shame on you. shame shame shame. you must have given the weakest excuse in history. their was no reason to reject that offer now she is thinking your rejecting her.
Author kgyula Posted December 14, 2009 Author Posted December 14, 2009 shame on you. shame shame shame. you must have given the weakest excuse in history. their was no reason to reject that offer now she is thinking your rejecting her. now come on, she knew way before (at least 4 days) about this event ans she could just porpouse this in the last minute? (almos word by word) do you realy thing that jumping on "this opportunity" as a blind would be ok? considering the fact that she never even mentioned for 4 days that we should spend some time together
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