asdf90 Posted December 13, 2009 Posted December 13, 2009 I know NC is for you to move on and not to get an ex back, but when do you start NC? right after the break up? my ex and I have been friendly after the break up, talking and stuff. but I starting to feel like maybe this friends thing won't work. We haven't seen each other in person but have talked on the phone, and the conversations were pleasant. It's been a few weeks since we've broken up, is it too late to go NC - for it to be effective? I know NC is for me to move on, but is it too late for him to realize his mistakes and miss me? regardless of whether or not we get back together.
gaudi Posted December 14, 2009 Posted December 14, 2009 From what I can gather, and this is bi know means me being the voice of experience coz it sounds like your in the same place I am. But NC should start as soon as possible if your gonna implement it at all, i mean the friends thing usually happens when a) one still wants the other back and isn't comfortable with letting go of all emotional ties to that person or b) when the other is still gonna need the occasional ego boost now and again and is assured of one......ie YOU !! unless you and Ex have spoken about a possible reconciliation that could happen and you're both working it out, then NC is, for both parties, probably the best option, and should start sooner rather than later.
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