tVII Posted December 13, 2009 Posted December 13, 2009 well quick story I'll make it short: first, 6 months. i work with her. HELL. haha the break up phases were hard but i got past all in 5 months. RELAPSED with the phases when she got a new bf. got past it in 1 month. she begins to completely ignore me. I RELAPSE once again and fall into a serious depression where i started cutting myself. ROSE above it in 2 months. went back to work and find out through rumors she could be possibly be talking to my friend (like that). so im choosing to move on. its hard. but i have to do it FOR REAL this time. any words of advice/encouragement on getting past and moving on? i could really use something nice to read.
almostpassedit Posted December 13, 2009 Posted December 13, 2009 stop cutting yourself? can you say crazy?
xoxo88 Posted December 13, 2009 Posted December 13, 2009 Are you sure you are over the cutting phase? If not you should go to a therapist. If you got over it here's a list of top break up books: http://dating.about.com/od/breakupsrejection/tp/breakupbooks.htm
AliveAndKicking Posted December 13, 2009 Posted December 13, 2009 Your self-harming sets off sirens, bells, and flashing lights. If you are not speaking to a professional at this time then it is high time you did. Please speak to a professional about your depression and cutting. You deserve to feel better and you do NOT deserve the harm you do to yourself. There are much less harmful ways of dealing with emotional pain. I sincerely hope you will seek assistance in this regard. I think you have worked very hard to get through this trying time and have really shown courage in hanging in there at work when the going was most certainly very tough. There is no shame in asking for a little help along the way. Please do so. Ignore the comment in which you were called "crazy". We all have difficulties and challenges and we are all here because we are in pain. Being in pain does not equal "crazy". I'm dissapointed that someone here would say such a thing. Pay no mind to that ignorant comment. Moving on is difficult but you can do it! Keep working hard as you have been and in time you will look back and be very proud of yourself. I wish you the very best.
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