TheLoneSock Posted December 13, 2009 Posted December 13, 2009 Theres one of you in every thread. Please, if you don't have actual advice, post elsewhere. Lol, and you would know? What do you mean every thread, you have 4 posts. Counter-accusations don't work when you're so obviously a troll. You're probably a dude seeking attention and enjoys posing as a young girl. Better yet, I bet you're already an established member and this is just a new user name.
Curious-One Posted December 13, 2009 Posted December 13, 2009 wow thats pretty strange... i can see you trying to help your dad find a women but getting him a 3some is way to strange for me.
Author deannathecat Posted December 13, 2009 Author Posted December 13, 2009 Lol, and you would know? What do you mean every thread, you have 4 posts. Counter-accusations don't work when you're so obviously a troll. You're probably a dude seeking attention and enjoys posing as a young girl. Better yet, I bet you're already an established member and this is just a new user name. I may only have four posts, but I lurk all the time. So don't be so shocked I know what a thread is, and what a troll is. is 28 still considered young? That makes me feel better. I've felt old ever since I went past 22. Again, if you don't have something constructive to say, please just stay out of the conversation. Seriously, its rude to come in for the sole purpose of antagonizing someone who's done nothing to you. I've lurked on here for a while, people seem so nice and cool on this site, but then when you finally post something, its like, all the d***s come out of the woodwork.
torranceshipman Posted December 13, 2009 Posted December 13, 2009 Why is man telling me "females don't think about these types of sexual things in relation to their father" ? I'm a girl so I ought to know just a little better than you, what females think in relation to anything. Maybe you should stick to what you know. Lol! I'm a woman and a feminine one at that. Anyway, my reference to 'sex and their friends' was in reference to thinking about hooking up POPS for SEX with their FRIENDS (of course girls talk about sex in general, though). Believe me, this is anything but normal. If you think that regular females think this way then you are very wrong, and many people will tell you that.
LucreziaBorgia Posted December 13, 2009 Posted December 13, 2009 Troll or no, I'll say this... As a parent, I can tell you this: there are some parts of a parent-child relationship that should never, ever cross and that is sexuality. Getting into your father's sex life is crossing a boundary that should never be crossed. Period. While the idea of a threesome might not shock or disgust him, the idea of his DAUGHTER setting it up might.
tkgirl Posted December 13, 2009 Posted December 13, 2009 Troll or no, I'll say this... As a parent, I can tell you this: there are some parts of a parent-child relationship that should never, ever cross and that is sexuality. Getting into your father's sex life is crossing a boundary that should never be crossed. Period. While the idea of a threesome might not shock or disgust him, the idea of his DAUGHTER setting it up might. ditto... I don't think you're a troll... you're not from California, are you? growing up there I had lot of friends that were very liberal and had this kind of open relationship with their parents... getting stoned with them and all that. I thought it was way cool. Mostly because my parents were uber-conservative and wouldn't dream of ever partying with them! I guess what I'm saying as I sort of get where you're coming from... and while I think your intentions are good... I would stay out of his sex life. Maybe have your hot friends come over and flirt with him a bit... that would boost his confidence enough... but then let him decide who he really wants to get intimate with... like maybe someone closer to his age that he can relate to more?
Malenfant Posted December 13, 2009 Posted December 13, 2009 what a strange idea. if your dad is a shy guy, he may hate two women coming onto him in that way. just saying not everyone's idea of a good time is a threesome. if he's a sensitive person, he's looking for a nice relationship. If i were a parent, i would hate my child to set me up like this. you say you wouldnt tell him but i think he would eventually find out. how humiliating to realise that actually those women were only having sex with you out of pity. allow the guy some dignity.
bac Posted December 14, 2009 Posted December 14, 2009 Please, give us update on how the treesome worked out.
Jersey Shortie Posted December 14, 2009 Posted December 14, 2009 I can't even imagine what family holiday's are like. Barf!
Taramere Posted December 14, 2009 Posted December 14, 2009 My dad is the sweetest guy on earth, Hes kind and caring and very sincere about everything he does. He's been the best dad a girl could ask for but he is really really shy around women....he seems so stressed out all the time and lonely, I know exactly what he needs, to get laid! So I know two of my girlfriends who are into threesomes, and I bet if I asked them, they would totally be down for it and tag team him. I wouldn't let my dad know I had arranged it, I'd let him think he seduced and charmed them all by himself . I know it would make his day, heck it would make his year I bet! I just want to see him happy and smiling again. I know he has always been embarrassed about his lack of success concerning women. When people are accused of trolling here, it often has less to do with them presenting something a bit out of the ordinary and more to do with things just not adding up convincingly. Your post would seem a little more plausible if your dad was the kind of guy who, to refer to another poster's comments, sits around with you smoking dope and talks about his sex life. However, what you're describing (re your father) is a very shy man who finds it difficult to talk to women. For you to introduce him to some of your friends in a social context, in the hope that he'd hit it off with someone nice, is a perfectly reasonable option. That's not an option you spend any time even contemplating in your post - which is part of why it just doesn't compute. No. What you're presenting is a scenario where your dad has been womanless (and apparently celibate) for as long as you can remember. Now, out of the blue, you've decided it would be a grand idea to set this very shy man up in a threesome with a couple of your friends. If you want to successfully sucker people with outlandish stories, they'll need to be a little better thought out than this mangled effort you've presented to the board.
Author deannathecat Posted December 15, 2009 Author Posted December 15, 2009 [quote For you to introduce him to some of your friends in a social context, in the hope that he'd hit it off with someone nice, is a perfectly reasonable option. That's not an option you spend any time even contemplating in your post - which is part of why it just doesn't compute. Thanks for all the pshychoanalyzing. I'm glad to see you've thought so long and hard about my post. I'm almost sorry to burst your bubble now. Why in the world would I introduce him to my friends in a social context in the hopes that he would hit it off with one of them? I don't want any of my friends for a potential stepmother. And he would have absolutely NOTHING in common with any of them. I love my friends but none of them are right or good enough for my dad. Most are party girls, they're lots of fun and we have blast when we go out to the clubs, but they aren't the (ahem) 'settle down and be a loyal girlfriend' types. In the end they'd end up hurting him and then I'd be forced to claw their eyes out:rolleyes: Now does it all compute? I already said I know its a little weird for me to have even thought of the idea, I just love my dad and I want him to have something special. I know at some point, probably before I was born, he must have laid some pipe a few times, so hooking him up with one of my girlfriends wouldn't be giving him something he hasn't ever had before. Now a threesome, I just figured hes never had anything like that and it would cheer him up, put some pep in his step. Okay?
BG1985 Posted December 15, 2009 Posted December 15, 2009 Why risk having your dad fall in love with one of these girls? What if he decides this should become a more regular occurrence?
Mary3 Posted December 15, 2009 Posted December 15, 2009 I can honestly say I never worried about my dads sex life .........
Lizzie60 Posted December 15, 2009 Posted December 15, 2009 I think you have good intentions.. It would, like you said, good for him to have sex.. finally. BUT... I wouldn't introduce him to my friends.. I would hire an escort to take care of it.. You wouldn't want anything to happen to your dad (you don't really know your friends, they might have STDs if they are so sexually active and into 3-somes). You got to be careful... My advice: help him put a profile on a dating site.. or better still.. a dating agency. They would provide him with tips and they can set up meetings.. Your friends = not a good idea..
LucreziaBorgia Posted December 16, 2009 Posted December 16, 2009 I would imagine that your idea of something special (hooking up with 'party girls' for casual sex threesomes) is probably not his idea of something special. What about your dad gives you the idea that he would like to have threesomes with 'party girls' your age? Not every man has that fantasy, you know.
Recommended Posts