moment Posted December 13, 2009 Posted December 13, 2009 My boyfriend of the past 4 1/2 years started acting distant this summer. I attempted to talk with him many times and he always said that nothing was bothering him and everything was fine. Our normally good sex life disappeared and he seemed to have no interest. In October when I returned from a trip I stopped by his house and he was still acting strange to I pressed the issue and he said we were just going to have to be friends while he figured out some things. He said I was his best friend and he didn't want to lose me. He says he isn't looking for anyone new, he is just dealing with his own issues right now. So, we drifted apart in October and the holidays are difficult. His family is down visiting him today and that has me weepy. I have been doing so well by staying busy that I'm unsure why I'm so upset today. We are in our 30s. Part of me realizes that he isn't the one for me, but it is so hard to let go of the familiarity, routine and memories of almost 5 years. I also miss seeing his family and had a lot invested in them as well. I think I'm just being overly emotional today and I'm sure things will look better tomorrow. I know that time heals everything....today is just rough. Thanks for listening...
trueblue72ny Posted December 13, 2009 Posted December 13, 2009 hi moment. sorry you are going thru this. i have been thru this also... hang in there girl.
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