ItsAllGoodAgain Posted December 12, 2009 Posted December 12, 2009 Not only do I see the light, I'm beginning to step into it. I saw the ex while driving this afternoon. I've seen her in the past and my first feeling was a nervous, gut wrenching one and I felt an over whelming urge to call her right away. Well, this time I still felt a little tug but it was more of an element of surprise tug. But the feeling was very brief and there was no nervousness. I had no urge to call either. I kind of even laughed it off a few miles down the road. The funny thing is I know she saw me as well. Shes the one who applied the breaks and whipped her head around to see if it was me. Time heals all. NC helps.
sugarmomma Posted December 14, 2009 Posted December 14, 2009 It does get better because time really does heall all wounds. We just have to trust the process. Glad to hear that you are healing.
Justburself Posted December 14, 2009 Posted December 14, 2009 It's great to hear yet another testimony to the benefit of going and sticking to NC. Despite your run-in you were able to keep your cool. I've been going through a horrific breakup for 3months time. But I have truly bought in and applied strict NC. Despite several attempts by my ex I have stayed strong.
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