smashley729 Posted December 12, 2009 Posted December 12, 2009 Alright, here's my deal. I met a guy at Starbucks, he gave me his card and said it was always nice to meet new people. I emailed him a few days afterwards and gave him my contact info and said it was nice to talk to him. He responds and asks if I wanted to meet again, to which we do a few days later at Starbucks again. It went great and within an hour of us leaving he e-mailed me and said he would love to get to know me more and get together again soon. I e-mail him back within an hour of getting his e-mail and said I would love to get together again and my schedule is pretty open with my college break. I haven't heard anything since, and this was Thursday night. So, am I over-thinking this? I'm just worried that I responded too soon, but he responded within 45 minutes of us leaving Starbucks. Should have I played harder to get? He's 29 and I'm 24, and I didn't get a "play the game" vibe from him. Was I too vague with my response of having an open schedule for a few weeks? I know I sound like a crazy obsessed woman, and I'm usually not like this at all. He just seems like a pretty awesome guy, and since he was interested in meeting again, it just kinda confused me as to why he hasn't responded. In the times we e-mailed before he's responded fairly quickly.
D-Lish Posted December 12, 2009 Posted December 12, 2009 I wouldn't worry- it's only Saturday. The next time he e-mails will probably be to set up a date.
boogieboy Posted December 12, 2009 Posted December 12, 2009 If he gave his card to you, chances are he gave his card to a few women. If he liked another woman more than you, and she is responding to him, then he wont need to email you back. Dont worry about it, it happen. Plus like everyone said, its only saturday, another couple days and assume hes not calling. Anyone who plays games like this, assume theyre not really interested until you are SURE they are.
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