condogal Posted December 12, 2009 Posted December 12, 2009 hi, i've been posting things often here and although i got some great advice...i feel as tho this is such a wierd situation...i wonder if he thinks of me even tho i shouldn't care to wonder...but with the restraining order he put on me of NC was a good thing...but how does he live with himself??...i don't want to do anything but watch tv listen to music and just hate him!!...6 freakin years and he wouldn't of broken up with me if i hadn't lost it on him!...now my question is "does a man do irrational things to break up in the heat of the moments but with NC and no choice cuz of his restraining order he put on me at the time of the bad break up..(4 weeks ago)...could he feel ****ty now?"...he loved me a month ago and planned for our forever...and now all this crap against me he did would be a sign for me that this man is ruthless and cold!...but just want to know, could he have done this in the heat of his anger but now feels..."fuh i love her what do i do now now that there is all this mess?"
Author condogal Posted December 12, 2009 Author Posted December 12, 2009 anyone around to help me? i feel so helpless...
LovelyDaze Posted December 12, 2009 Posted December 12, 2009 Hey condogal. Just how long is the restraining order for? Because I want you to continue it even when the time limit expires. Show him that you may have bent but you are not broken. Get your life in order and DO NOT CONTACT HIM AGAIN! The last thing you want is for your ex to REALLY believe that you are obsessed with him by saying anything to him ever again. Put it down on paper and pretend to say it to him or send it to him. Just don't really do it.
Author condogal Posted December 13, 2009 Author Posted December 13, 2009 hi, awwww my gosh thanks LovelyD for replying i was sinkink here......well there is a court date for April 18...but i'm not showing up!...it's more for him to decide whether to drop it all and i really have a feeling he will...but that is so far away!...i just hoped you or anyone could really really read what i initially wrote and help on that...thankyou!!!...hugs...
Author condogal Posted December 13, 2009 Author Posted December 13, 2009 hi, okay so noone is around?...i'm having a hard time tonight....
LovelyDaze Posted December 13, 2009 Posted December 13, 2009 (( HUGS)) Hang in there. Saturdays are always slow. I hope some of the brokenhearted are out with friends and family. That would be good for a lot judging by what i read everyday.
Author condogal Posted December 13, 2009 Author Posted December 13, 2009 Hi, but LoveD...can you really read what i wrote??...what do you think??...
LovelyDaze Posted December 13, 2009 Posted December 13, 2009 Yes. I've seen your posts on this subject before. I hate that you are hurting. Don't give him more ammo to make your ex feel like some sort of Adonis god. The hardest thing you will ever do is to move on without him. Let the RO be the last thing he can do to hurt you. No more.
Author condogal Posted December 13, 2009 Author Posted December 13, 2009 hi, LoveD..your very right...but i need some insight..noone can fully respond to my last note??...but you are truly right LoveD...i will do ....i will...
Author condogal Posted December 14, 2009 Author Posted December 14, 2009 hi, anyone elses insight for what i initially asked??...thanks so much...
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