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Try to keep a long story short here ..

 

I recently got out of a long term relationship. With all intentions to be single and independent for the first time in years, I ended up meeting someone and I've been seeing him for a few months. I went against my better judgement in starting something so fast after a breakup because of how great things were going with the new guy. It was going incredibly well, and it all seemed to be happening so quickly. It felt right at the time, and I was happy.

 

Then, I found out I was pregnant. And I'm having a sudden change of heart. I'm not feeling the same way toward him anymore, I don't want to be around or talk to him like I used to, I just want space. Which is complicated because we committed to moving in together when we learned about my pregnancy, as we thought it was for the best.

 

Could it just have been an infatuation on my part? Could it be my pregnancy hormones? How will moving in with him work, knowing I want space from the relationship and he doesn't? So many confusions!

 

Would appreciate any advice!

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You cant even figure out why you dont want to be around him all of a sudden?

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That's part of the confusion. I just started feeling differently. My only answer to all this is I'm too overwhelmed by everything and realize I should have taken the time to be on my own for a while.

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