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okay i guess ill just get it all out there..and please comment back:)

 

 

well me and my ex boyfriend first started dating in 9th grade..(i'm 22 now) we only dated for a month i broke up with him cuz i was too into sports and school and what not after we broke up i didnt hear or see him until 5 yrs later..but in the meantime he got married and had a kid during those 5 yrs..well him and his wife or whatever werent together anymore when i met him..i saw him at a store one day and someone said my name and i turned around and it was him and i was like hey how are you and then i left, figuring i would never talk to him again..well he tracked me down on myspace and wanted to hang out and i finally hung out with him and we hung out for like 5 months and he kept asking me out and i turned him down until i gave it a shot with him..

 

i knew he had a kid and i was totally ready for that along with our relationship, i actually got really attached to his son we were inseperable. well we dated for 2 and half yrs and i realized once he saw me taking care of his son he kinda didnt wanna do that job anymore, i would buy his son toys, clothes, take him out places all the time and he never did any of that at all..i didnt mind it tho because i loved his son, his son even started to call me mommy and i was okay with that..

 

after awhile he got to be really mean towards me and we would fight a lot because i always pushed him into taking care of his son or saving up money to move out..important things..and he hated when i did that and finally he broke up with him in a text message..i couldnt even remember the excuse, but i know he was so in love with me cuz he never wanted to be without me and then all of a sudden i tried to make him step up and have responsibilities and he wasnt having it at all

 

after we broke up i contacted him a couple times and then i stopped and i didnt talk to him for about 3 months and then i texted him saying i want my stuff back that he has and we just argued and he was mean and i havent talked to him since..but 3 weeks after we broke up he started dating someone knew..someone he doesnt even know and after like 2 weeks of them being together i saw they were already saying i love you to each other..and i know he hates being alone and he jumped into this REBOUND relationship too fast and didnt even have time to heal like me...

 

i havent really been thinking about him lately but recently hes all thats been on my mind..i love him still of course, and hes been with this other girl for like 4 months now..when is this honey moon stage gonna be over and when will she realize hes an ******* too..

 

ps. HE NEVER GOT A DIVORCE! after he told many of times he would but he just doesnt wanna pay for it..and his new gf knows that and is still with him!

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