Wishing things were different!

[Armani]

Me an my ex had been together 3 years an it had always been a pretty good relationship, no major arguements etc until recently he started going out with his mates a lot more, complaining he was 2 tired to come and see me (i only live a 2 min drive away!!), leaving his phone in his car or turning it off when around me etc. then out of the blue he breaks up with me claiming he needed space and time, i was obviously gutted but decided id do my best to leave him be. we stayed in touch via general texts an calls for about a month, he then decided he'd made a mistake - i took him back!! i then find out from a mutual friend that he had been sleeping with another girl who he'd been 'getting to know' for the past 4 months!!!! we broke up, he continued to be with the other girl. he then comes crawling back again, i take him back thinking it will be different! he takes me on a trip abroad, claims he is soooo in love with me and all is well, until he sees this girl in the club once again!!! we are now broken up, it has been 3 weeks since he dumped me for the 3rd time!! he is getting friendly with this girl once again but he still insists on texting and calling me to 'check im ok', also wanting to know my plans for the weekend. i really dont understand his thinking while im trying to do the whole NC thing, yet he still gets in touch!! i want to be with him dispite the mess that he has made our relationship into!! the girl is in university far away for most of the year so im thinking maybe he wants me as a backup just incase it all goes wrong with her??? im so confused an trying really hard with the NC but i just miss me and him. stupid i know!!! what do you think guys??!!

[1cowbell]

Try to ignore his text and calls. Think about your self and what would make you happy

[You'reasian]

Sorry to hear about your situation.

 

See him face to face and hash it out. Bring your issues forward and let them out. That's the only way to deal with it.

 

Give him an ultimatum.