ladydesigner Posted December 11, 2009 Posted December 11, 2009 Well I have to admit having an A was one of the worst things I have ever done. I can truly say I am finally healed and moving on from my memories of XOM and the A. For those of you still grieving and hanging on to hope it will get better. I used to think I would never get over it, that I would never forget about my XOM, but I have. I now have days where I do not think of him at all and when I do it is like a distant memory with no emotions attached. I even get the feeling of wow what was I thinking? Why did I do that? What happened? I do not miss XOM, I do not feel like contacting him, and I do not feel like thinking about him. I do not have any hard feelings I just feel that I am at a place of peace and acceptance. NC was a real help in getting me to this point as hard as I thought it was at the time it is worth it. I just wanted to thank everyone here on LS who helped me get to this point, difficult answers as well. I could not have gotten to this point without LS. I will probably stop in every now and then to view and respond with advice but for the most part I haven't been on the boards as much because I feel I am much stronger now. Thanks Everyone on LS, both OW/OM/MM/MW/WS/BS all of you have offered me the greatest feedback and advice... have to say it was better than therapy in knowing I was not alone in this. Thank You
Fallen Angel Posted December 11, 2009 Posted December 11, 2009 Lady D, You will be missed around here, be sure to drop in sometimes with updates of your new 'free' life, and continue to give hope to those of us who still have so very far to go to get there. ((HUGS and warm wishes for a wonderful life filled with HUGE love))
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