Zeegagge Posted December 11, 2009 Posted December 11, 2009 So we were together three and a half mostly wonderful years. Every day I was with her felt like a million bucks. Now it's been over a month and a half and I'm pretty upset about the whole thing. We had a lot of good times and I have a lot of wonderful memories. She doesn't hate me or anything, still speaks very highly of me but has moved on. Yah, it hurts. I guess my question for myself and everyone in a similar situation is 'was it worth it?' A few months of pain (hopefully that's all) for years of good times and some nice memories. If you could go back and start from the beginning would you say no to the whole thing and miss out on all the good times just to avoid the pain at the end? I can't decide. Sometimes I wish we could break up first, get the pain over with, then be happy.
Tincup Posted December 11, 2009 Posted December 11, 2009 I would gladly take the pain up front followed by the happy for ever after...
deebeechrisyo Posted December 11, 2009 Posted December 11, 2009 My last relationship was definitely worth it for me. I'm not even talking about the relationship itself either. That was pretty good, but it was the "kick in the ass" I recieved after she broke it off. I was lacsadaisically going through the motions in life for the past year, and right after the break up I've become extremely motivated, experiencing new things, and just bettering myself. I suppose I should thank her, even though I don't want to talk to her again. Nice conflict of interests huh? Sometimes the pain is needed to wake yourself up.
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