StarlightWish17 Posted December 11, 2009 Posted December 11, 2009 Alllrriigghhhtty. Soo. There’s this guy in one of my college classes and I’m a little interested in him. But I can’t tell if he feels the same way about me. Whenever I go up to talk him his eyes flicker up to me, then they look away, then back up. I can’t tell if he’s just nervous or just like… annoyed? Maybe? But when I go up to talk to him he doesn’t seem like he’s irritated. He seems fine but not like – nervous, either. And I’ve caught him looking over at me sometimes and his eyes do the same thing. And we just had a class party because we finished our semester. He normally sits the on the far opposite side of me but at the party he seemed like he was trying to sit closer to me. He couldn’t sit right beside me though because I was sitting between two of my friends, but he sat on the other side of one of them. I dunno if he was making an effort to try to get closer to me though because that’s where the food was, so he might have just wanted to be close to the pizza, ha ha. Annndd. We both have a Facebook and he left me one of those Social Interview Questions asking what I looked good in and he answered ‘anything it seems.’ So then I messaged him on that IM thingy. We talked for a few hours but eventually he had to go to bed and so did I. (It was like three thirty in the morning and we were both exhausted.) I was too scared to message him again the next day because I didn’t want to seem like – obsessively weird or anything, you know? So I didn’t message him for about four days but he never made any moves to try to IM me. So I finally IMed him last night. We didn’t talk as long as before. It was on a Thursday and he had class and a test in the morning so he had to go. But if he was interested wouldn’t he have tried to IM me at some point? I shouldn’t be the one always trying to start conversations online, should I? My sister said that he might just be too shy or nervous to IM me first but I don’t know… Should I make an attempt to message him again or leave it up to him? He has a ton of friends that are girls too. So what if he’s just like a ‘player’ or something? Ugggghhh. I can’t tell. But I know that he’s not gay because he used to have a girlfriend but it didn’t work out. And he has a ton of guy friends too. But also a lot of girl ones. I’m all right with that but I’m just nervous that he might be one of those people who like to flirt, and nothing else. He also never really looks at me when we’re talking in person. And when we’re in the computer lab he usually always goes to sit by me. After our party he told the class that they should ‘hit him up’ on Facebook. I can’t tell if that’s like a code for ME to ‘hit him up’ or if he’s just a nice guy. I can’t tell if he’s shy or just sees me as a nice person to talk too. But when did talk on Facebook he’s mentioned nice things. He’s complimented on my name, on my success of writing a book (not published yet)… and we got to know each other a little more. And when we’ve talked in person he’s said good things. We’re in a Journalism class and he’s the student editor. He’s said that: "You have one of the best ideas in the class" and he’s said that he’s been impressed with my articles. But really. What if he’s just looking for a friend? C’mon guys. Give me you’re input on this! Haha. XD I’m also looking for some tips for when I see him in person. Like nice things to say and do, but without making me completely obvious. I’m not really good at this sort of thing. =/ So. What do you people think? Does he sound like he’s interested or just a nice person? Sigh. I’m so confused. =___= Advice would be very much appriciated. Please and thank you.
Awesome Username Posted December 11, 2009 Posted December 11, 2009 The fact that he talked to you for a few hours means that there might be more there. I dunno - flirt with him a little more and see what he does. Then, get back to us! Guys are CLUELESS sometimes about when a girl likes them.
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