yorkshire_lad Posted December 18, 2003 Posted December 18, 2003 i would just like to know your thoughts? i got down and asked my gf to marry me about 5 month ago, i went to see her on her lunch at work like i do when its my day off and yesterday we sat in her car because it was cold and we started talking, i didn't realise how soon i asked her to marry me,I Made note of the day we started going out and the day i asked her to marry me and it was only about 3 -4 month.I'm so happy with her but when she brought it up she said she didn't realise it was that soon felt like we was going out years she said she is happy and loves me its just the way it kinda came out she might think she has rushed into it with me being her 2nd fiance,i don't know if this is making any sense at all because I'm not even sure its making sense to me,advice would be grateful thanks alto. Just love her so much dont want to lose her. i dont think it was 2 soon.
vixen Posted December 18, 2003 Posted December 18, 2003 I don't think it's too soon. I waited 5 years to make sure me and Adam were right for each other, and 3 months after the wedding he split. Ever since that day i realized it doesn't matter how long or not long you've been together, if it's your time to break up it's your time. So if you want to spend your time with her married, and she agrees, then go for it. It's plain, and it's simple. But please please remember this, getting married does not mean the person will be your's forever. Far from it. Marriage will not hold, or preserve the love that you two share. Love is extremely dangerous, and it's a risky business. I wish you both the best of luck. Vixen
Errol Posted December 18, 2003 Posted December 18, 2003 Its not too soon. I was engaged after only a couple of months together. We stayed engaged for about 2 years before getting married.
Author yorkshire_lad Posted December 18, 2003 Author Posted December 18, 2003 thanks both of u u have made me see sense so thanks again for the help.
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