Fluffsticle Posted December 11, 2009 Posted December 11, 2009 Hi Folks, I'm wondering if it's normal to feel like this. I'm in a relationship for the past year, but whenever my boyfriend comments on some other girl being good lookingI kind of feel a bit **** about myself. Or one time I was in a Pub, and he commented on how Kylie Minogue has a face you'd never get tired of looking at. There and then I felt like getting up and going home and getting into a tracsuit bottoms and messing my hair! And felt that I shouldn't have bothered even going out. Why did I feel like that? Why do I feel annoyed slightly if he comments on another girl being good looking? (I don't row with him, but it shouldn't make me feel bad about myself, but it does!) I trust him completely and I know he would never be with anyone else. I am very happy with the way I look, and with my personality (expect for getting annoyed over comments like this), and I can't think of anything I would like to change. It seems like I'm insecure about something? Does it? Is it normal to feel like this? Or am I crazy?
Ms. Joolie Posted December 11, 2009 Posted December 11, 2009 Is it normal to feel like this? Or am I crazy? It depends. How often is he complimenting other girls??
MSUE Posted December 11, 2009 Posted December 11, 2009 its never really bothered me in my R...but it goes both ways he finds someone hot and so do i usually watching tv or people at work...nothing wrong w admiring beauty...at the end of the day its just us and he's the hottest in my eyes as I am to him as well dont be insecure
SincereOnlineGuy Posted December 12, 2009 Posted December 12, 2009 Hi Folks, I'm wondering if it's normal to feel like this. I'm in a relationship for the past year, but whenever my boyfriend comments on some other girl being good lookingI kind of feel a bit **** about myself. Or one time I was in a Pub, and he commented on how Kylie Minogue has a face you'd never get tired of looking at. There and then I felt like getting up and going home and getting into a tracsuit bottoms and messing my hair! And felt that I shouldn't have bothered even going out. Why did I feel like that? Why do I feel annoyed slightly if he comments on another girl being good looking? (I don't row with him, but it shouldn't make me feel bad about myself, but it does!) I trust him completely and I know he would never be with anyone else. I am very happy with the way I look, and with my personality (expect for getting annoyed over comments like this), and I can't think of anything I would like to change. It seems like I'm insecure about something? Does it? Is it normal to feel like this? Or am I crazy? Kylie Minogue??? Really??? That would be the U.S. equivalent of a woman feeling threatened by her boyfriend noticing Paris Hilton (Paris either dressed or naked) Celebrities put themselves out there to be seen and gawked over, and if your guy noticed Kylie Minogue, so what. Come back to us when it is the woman who lives three doors down from you. Until then, you need to adopt/find a positive outlook which will certainly enhance your own appeal in the eyes of your boyfriend.
SoConfusledandHurt Posted December 17, 2009 Posted December 17, 2009 I think its kind of rude to say things like that in front of your significant other. I mean...saying "Kylie Mygnoe is a pretty lady" is ok...but "Wow, a face Id never get tired of looking at" is kind of rude to say to the person your supposed to look at everyday! Some people need to learn how to tame their comments in front of their partners. Its about common decensy <sp> Im sure if more women thought with their p**** how the majority of men seem to think with their c*** more men then women would be here posting about things like this!
sugarmomma Posted December 17, 2009 Posted December 17, 2009 My xh loves Jill Scott. I knew he didn't have a snowball's chance in hell with her. He would say things like "Look at Jill, I would give her the bizniz" I'd and smile say "You, would? well she is beautiful," knowing in my mind she wouldn't waste one minute even talking to him. You have to be secure in who you are as a woman and what you bring to the table. Yea maybe he shouldn't say it, but certain things we shouldn't let bother us when we are secure with ourselves. Now if he is going around saying it about complete strangers, we'd have a bigger problem.
D-Lish Posted December 17, 2009 Posted December 17, 2009 My xh loves Jill Scott. I knew he didn't have a snowball's chance in hell with her. He would say things like "Look at Jill, I would give her the bizniz" I'd and smile say "You, would? well she is beautiful," knowing in my mind she wouldn't waste one minute even talking to him. You have to be secure in who you are as a woman and what you bring to the table. Yea maybe he shouldn't say it, but certain things we shouldn't let bother us when we are secure with ourselves. Now if he is going around saying it about complete strangers, we'd have a bigger problem. Never heard of Jill Scott?? I will have to google. I think dudes say shyte like this sometimes to intentionally rattle their dates.
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