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:confused: OK it all started with me meeting him, he was so cute and treated me like gold. we hung out for a couple of months and then he asked me out we were to gether for 61/2 months it was great. Untill the 5th month and all of a sudden he justed changed. He wasnt as sweet anymore and would call me for days at a time wouldnt answer his phone or anything. Then I get a phone call from a friend of mine and she tells me that he is seein a girl from her job.( the same place I used to work) and go to everyday!!! I didnt ask no questions I just called him and told him he lied to me and it was over. He was all upset and didnt no what was wrong. He decided to not speak to me at all, and I was like ok I can get over him easier.. so I thought... WRONG. Later I found out that my friend was lying because she didnt like him so she didnt want me with him!!! So I tried to call him and apoligize but he wasnt trying to hear that. We didnt talk for a few weeks and out of the blue he calls me and tells me that he still loves me and we can take this time to fix ourselfs... then he gave me the biggest shock he had a new girlfriend!!! the same girl that I was told he was with in the beginning!!! I was very upset to say the least. But I just let it go, he started dating hr 3 days after we broke up!!!............fastforward a few months. Now im working ( wasnt working at the time) and dont really need the stress of a guy in my brain and he wants to start texting me and I feel that I need to let him go no matter how much I love him, I dont know what to do should I txt him back and pretend like Im ok or should I let my heart move on, as hard as it may be, and no matter how much I am still in love with him?
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Hi no love, and welcome to LoveShack.

As I see it... he's got a new girlfriend, so that's a dead-end right there.

If you do want to let go, heal and move forward then, yes, 'no contact' is a really good way to accomplish that. It is difficult to maintain at first, but the stronger you are and more self-control you exercise, the easier it gets.

 

I'm sorry that you're going through this.

Hugs, and good healing.

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