antisha Posted December 11, 2009 Posted December 11, 2009 Hi everyone, I don't know what to do in my situation...I met a man 4months ago, he had just move to my city, he works for a fortune 500 company hence he travels often.Things were fantastic, he purschased a nice 3 story house in the same area that I live. I helped him to move in and I live with him for a month to a month and a half.... I slept there every night. I am doing my masters currently, one day I came home(his house) and he said that his job was moving him to germany for two years and he would have to move that week. I believed him. He said his company was arranging all the moving details and his realtor was renting the house to a white couple, I believe all this.... so he went to germany as I thought.. weeks past and he was frenquently in he U.S, I got suspicious because he was here too much and then he would call me real late germany's time so I put two and two together and one night drove by his house that he was suspose to have rented out, His office window was open and all his stuff was still there, so the next morning I call 411 and gave them his name, low and behold he had a landline phone to that address, I called a woman asnwers she said she was his wife... I WAS STUNNED. This man went to the extent of telling me he was going to get engaged to me in a month, that he had bought a ring and everything. I went to the house and his wife found out who I was... well she is still there... but just a few days ago I found out am pregnant, he still text me and said if his wife finds out he still does, it would be the end of his marriage and he would have to pay her millions because they have a prenup. I just told him am pregnant. I have no clue what to do... am in love with the guy... but he decieved me from day one telling me he was single... what should I do?
bentnotbroken Posted December 11, 2009 Posted December 11, 2009 Are you really pregnant or are you just pissed that he lied? I recognize the fact that you were an innocent participant in his scenario. I would run, don't walk, run away. His wife needs to know what he is up to. Do you have any physical proof? If you do send it to her anonymously and don't listen to any thing he has to say.
blinded Posted December 11, 2009 Posted December 11, 2009 What a jerk. If you're not really pregnant. RUN!!! And don't look back. If you are truly pregnant, I hope you have some good support people in your life to lean on. Good luck to you.
White Flower Posted December 11, 2009 Posted December 11, 2009 If you are pregnant, file a paternity suit. He's got money, and lots of it. He should have never lied to you and never lead you on that he had a ring and would soon propose.
candoit Posted December 11, 2009 Posted December 11, 2009 child support .... 25% of his income you will get depending on the state he lives in ....let him learn his lesson
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