Flavour Posted December 11, 2009 Posted December 11, 2009 ....all we have right now is our 45 minutes daily conversation on the phone. It's not that much but I cannot find the words to describe how much it gives to me. He calls me when in my country it is 7 o'clock, so I start my day with him. And he is going to bed, so he finishes his day with me. Probably we shall see each other again in March. But I don't know how it happens, but when during the day I feel unwell for some reason, if I miss him terribly, I am tired, or worried, or discouraged, and I think that I would need so much to hear his voice in that right moment and I cannot wait until the next morning, if I have a bad bad day, well he seems to know it and it is when the phone rings at an unexpected time and I hear his sweet voice and my heart just is going to EXPLODE....and when I read something like "LDR what's the point" well the point is, I had men who lived right at my side and they never realized when I was sad, while he is able to even with an ocean between us and not seeing me. This is the point, love is the point. Can anyone relate to this? :-)
temple Posted December 11, 2009 Posted December 11, 2009 That is so beautiful. Most people spend their whole lives looking for something like this. You are an incredibly lucky woman and I wish the best for both of you.
Rollercoasterr Posted December 11, 2009 Posted December 11, 2009 I experience that every day of my life. So yeah, I know how you feel. Mathew knows when I'm sick, angry, tired, or sad. We dont even have to be talking. I know it's weird, but it's kind of like the distance has forced a connection between us that's like the twin connection thing. I don't know what it is, but I love it. I'll tell you this, though. When he's upset I feel it too. My heart starts fluttering and I know that I HAVE to talk to him. Again, also strange, but it doesn't matter. I love Mathew with all of my heart and soul, I know why my relationship is worth it.
carvidep Posted December 11, 2009 Posted December 11, 2009 I have that with my guy, too. He seems to know me better than I know myself. I'm glad I'm not crazy for feeling that way, and that others have that strange yet amazing connection across the miles as well.
Author Flavour Posted December 11, 2009 Author Posted December 11, 2009 That is so beautiful. Most people spend their whole lives looking for something like this. You are an incredibly lucky woman and I wish the best for both of you. Thank you for your beautiful words. I wish the best of luck for you too
Author Flavour Posted December 11, 2009 Author Posted December 11, 2009 I experience that every day of my life. So yeah, I know how you feel. Mathew knows when I'm sick, angry, tired, or sad. We dont even have to be talking. I know it's weird, but it's kind of like the distance has forced a connection between us that's like the twin connection thing. I don't know what it is, but I love it. I'll tell you this, though. When he's upset I feel it too. My heart starts fluttering and I know that I HAVE to talk to him. Again, also strange, but it doesn't matter. I love Mathew with all of my heart and soul, I know why my relationship is worth it. Love is wonderful, isn't it? And you recognize it when you have it........your heart is wrapped in a comfy blanket of tenderness and care:)
Arizonaheart Posted December 11, 2009 Posted December 11, 2009 ....all we have right now is our 45 minutes daily conversation on the phone. It's not that much but I cannot find the words to describe how much it gives to me. He calls me when in my country it is 7 o'clock, so I start my day with him. And he is going to bed, so he finishes his day with me. Probably we shall see each other again in March. But I don't know how it happens, but when during the day I feel unwell for some reason, if I miss him terribly, I am tired, or worried, or discouraged, and I think that I would need so much to hear his voice in that right moment and I cannot wait until the next morning, if I have a bad bad day, well he seems to know it and it is when the phone rings at an unexpected time and I hear his sweet voice and my heart just is going to EXPLODE....and when I read something like "LDR what's the point" well the point is, I had men who lived right at my side and they never realized when I was sad, while he is able to even with an ocean between us and not seeing me. This is the point, love is the point. Can anyone relate to this? :-) WOW! Beautifully written. A LDR is not something I would have ever desired to pursue (20 mile radius was always my limit). He lives 1800 miles away and I swear I could feel his soul beside me often throughout the day. When we are working at our office we keep IM open. Sometimes the day is so busy we cannot carry on IM convo but just knowing he is there. When I am having a bad day he knows it even though I attempt to hide it in our IMs, he says he can feel my emotions. We can complete each other's sentences and many many times we have said the same thing at the same time (random stuff). Our nightly phone conversations- practically every night for 9 months and my heart still jumps for joy. Mind you I have been divorced for nearly 10 yrs and have done my fair share of local dating. I have NEVER thought I would even consider remarriage but this is more different than anything I have ever experienced. He is without a doubt, My Best Friend, My Lover and My Soulmate! LDR will leave some wondering if it really is worth it. Perhaps it is not for everyone but when you find THE ONE it is worth it every bit of the way.
Author Flavour Posted December 11, 2009 Author Posted December 11, 2009 I have that with my guy, too. He seems to know me better than I know myself. I'm glad I'm not crazy for feeling that way, and that others have that strange yet amazing connection across the miles as well. I had already answered you but I do not not why it was not published....I told you that we are not crazy but just in love
Author Flavour Posted December 11, 2009 Author Posted December 11, 2009 Mind you I have been divorced for nearly 10 yrs and have done my fair share of local dating. I have NEVER thought I would even consider remarriage but this is more different than anything I have ever experienced. He is without a doubt, My Best Friend, My Lover and My Soulmate! LDR will leave some wondering if it really is worth it. Perhaps it is not for everyone but when you find THE ONE it is worth it every bit of the way. The same, divorced for 5 yrs....... and I agree with you 100%.
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