loveblues Posted December 11, 2009 Posted December 11, 2009 Ok, hi everyone. I'm also wondering as many of you, what could happen next, and just wanting some other guys/girls different perspective. (help) here goes: I'm in my early 20's my now Ex is 31. (this wasn't an issue) we only dated for over 2 months and a half. short but lovely romance..It was great, he was good to me and vice versa, everything was ok, until the break-up. Over something so small as an argument gone really bad, and two hard heads who can't commit yet. He contact me recently on Oct 25th, and it was the so called "Hey how you doing" typa talk.. (I didnt understand what it meant because when I've broken-up in the past they never called me back) And so I thought I could ask that question of, Why are you calling me? when I was the one who broke us up, even though he wanted too. But I couldn't ask it didnt come out, I can tell you we were both nervous and enjoying the conversation, but in the end nothing happened. He didnt even say we were going to remain friends, & I was relieved because I would never want that. This what ill never take from any men after a relationship, a friendship. As time has passed he calls me once a week, the last time we spoke on Dec 1st It would've been our 5th month anniversary, He told me to call him once a while, don't be a stranger. I was unsure of what it meant, but I still agreed. The other stuff he's told me already like twice, its been that he doesn't care about the past anymore, it's just the present and future important to him. He said it again last time we spoke. So Im thinking since he never again has mentioned about our break-up or none of our relationship, does it really mean he would never consider us together as a couple we once were? **I mean has anybody who's really broken-up have gotten back together, If yes, where are you guys I need some advise! >>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>
confused1987 Posted December 11, 2009 Posted December 11, 2009 Ok... People break-up and get back together all the time. Being a guy (I believe I am the same age as you are), I would never call my ex once a week unless I would want something more than a chat on the phone. the fact that He still calls you,is a pretty good sign of him not being over you.The fact that he wont talk about the break-up could be because he hopes you will initiate the conversation (he may feel that he went out of his way to call you, now it's your turn to let him know that you still care enough). My suggestion to you is to ask him yourself if you are curious enough, if not move on with it and don't answer his calls.
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