DollWelch Posted December 11, 2009 Posted December 11, 2009 Yes. It's true. A good man, Mr. Right, can't simply fall from the sky for you. I am lonely. I can't find myself a good man. I'm tired, and frustrated. The Single Life is great, but only for so long. The men I have encountered in the past, were always missing something. It is either: (1) Physically attracted, but the connection/chemistry is beyond horrible. (2) Chemistry is very weak; no sparks flying. Not physically attracted. Here is to another year of The Single Life. Thank you for listening.
temple Posted December 11, 2009 Posted December 11, 2009 Yes I agree these people seem to be few and far between. But rather than looking at it as "there are no good men", think instead that "you haven't found one that fits what you're looking for". Of course there are good men and good women everywhere - you just haven't met the one yet It will turn out ok
espec10001 Posted December 11, 2009 Posted December 11, 2009 Heres the thing. Young men have to do some soul searching or learn an activity to become good at to impress you ladies. Most guys can't rely on their looks and personality alone, so we have to develop some activity or skill that sets us apart, which naturally draws you to us when we are doing it because through hours of practice you can 'see' our accomplishments. And part of it is competition between other guys because usually the one who's better at something the higher chance he might attract the girl he wants rather than some other guy. So go easy on us! It's just as hard for us as it is for you. Most guys are not good at chatting up girls they don't know, but we try anyway, even though the chances of rejection and looking like a retard are usually pretty high. So just put yourself out there, make yourself more approachable and open to conversation with guys. You don't have to start it, but give us some signs so that we can approach.
JamesM Posted December 11, 2009 Posted December 11, 2009 As a married man, I have a different perspective. But then I am one of the good ones...because all the good ones are married. Anyhow, it has been awhile but back then I wondered, too, if I would find the one for me. Obviously, I did, and after twenty years despite the problems we may have or have had, I still think that. My wife would have been as you, but she moved to "get wet." She didn't find any men where she was at, so she took a job in a different state, and six months later we met for the first time. But it took another three months before I "woke up" and saw her differently. My point is...either the man for you is in front of you and the spark hasn't ignited, or the man for you is waiting in another place.
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