Thebob Posted December 11, 2009 Posted December 11, 2009 Sorry I haven't been on replying to posts recently, been trying to get my life together socially, and trying to meet new people and new women. Luckily I was able to meet another girl but it's the same situation as it was with my ex. She lives 3.5-4 hours away and is at school currently and I met her over break. I feel that I am doomed with only meeting women that are LDR and it's no fun. I really hope that I can find someone soon, cause I miss that warmth and caring that a girlfriend can bring to a man when he really wants someone by his side. Hope all is well, and I will be trying to give my best advice as much as I can! you all helped me so much and thanks for everything. Thebob
USMCHokie Posted December 11, 2009 Posted December 11, 2009 Bob, I actually stayed up last night curled up in the fetal position and whimpering myself to sleep because I haven't seen you on LS lately. But I promise you that I'll be strong... But good to hear that you're get out there...best of luck to you with this new girl...don't associate her situation with your situation with the ex...each new experience doesn't have a memory of the past...that's why it's new...
Author Thebob Posted December 11, 2009 Author Posted December 11, 2009 Bob, I actually stayed up last night curled up in the fetal position and whimpering myself to sleep because I haven't seen you on LS lately. But I promise you that I'll be strong... Seriously? I can't tell if your joking or not, but if you did I'm sorry.... But good to hear that you're get out there...best of luck to you with this new girl...don't associate her situation with your situation with the ex...each new experience doesn't have a memory of the past...that's why it's new... I'm just scared to give it my all, I've initiated contact 4 times since I met her and she has talked greatly each time, but I don't know if that was her just being nice or a one time hook up or not. Her friend told my buddy that she liked me and what not, but out of site out of mind plays a big roll here. I just don't want to be involved in another Long Distant relationship due to the fact that my ex tore my heart apart when she told me the things she did when we tried to make it work. I don't know how to go about this, should I wait for this girl to initiate contact? or should I keep contacting her every 4-5 days until I get to see her in person again... Thebob
Author Thebob Posted December 11, 2009 Author Posted December 11, 2009 I guess you just need to be patient I guess so! that is what another buddy of mind told me as well. Thebob
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