gsly Posted December 11, 2009 Posted December 11, 2009 Ok well ive got another problem..so tonight i was supposed to go out to the bars with my gf(well she hasnt really said if we're dating or not) and her friends who've i've gone on 4 dates withher. well to make a long story short, they told me that they weren't going to go so i told my "friend" i dont think il go if they dont go, well i txt her and say that we should still do something and it's been a long time since we've last txt'd each other(this is the first time that it's happened and im starting to think that she doesnt want to). Would it be proper to call her and ask her?
bean1 Posted December 11, 2009 Posted December 11, 2009 I think you should call her and try and figure out if you guys are friends or just casually dating? Doesn't sound like you are in a relationship at all.
Author gsly Posted December 11, 2009 Author Posted December 11, 2009 well i forgot to put that last night i called her and asked her about it if she just wants to be friends and everything because it was bothering me. and she said it was because she doesnt want to be hurt like she was in her last relationship which i told her i didn't have a problem with it. and only time will tell..its just we could have a conversation txt'ing and il bring up like we should do something and the converstion will stop til i start talking about something else. I know everyone is going to say i should move on, but i think i might wait this one out til she tells me for sure what she wants to do.
boogieboy Posted December 11, 2009 Posted December 11, 2009 You can call her and suggest something to do, but be prepared for her to ssay she already has other plans with them. I hope they didnt shut you out.
SoulSearch_CO Posted December 11, 2009 Posted December 11, 2009 I'm not sure if it's because I'm on my third beer, but that was sooooooo confusing. Try punctuation and some more details. I'm not even sure what to say.
Author gsly Posted December 11, 2009 Author Posted December 11, 2009 You can call her and suggest something to do, but be prepared for her to ssay she already has other plans with them. I hope they didnt shut you out. they didn't shut me out..she just txt'd me back saying she was doing something else for now..so i said well after we should do something and still no response just yet I'm not sure if it's because I'm on my third beer, but that was sooooooo confusing. Try punctuation and some more details. I'm not even sure what to say. i know it's confusing lol..
boogieboy Posted December 11, 2009 Posted December 11, 2009 they didn't shut me out..she just txt'd me back saying she was doing something else for now... Wow THAT was an obvious blowoff. Dont call or text her again, wait for her to text you suggesting an outing.
Author gsly Posted December 11, 2009 Author Posted December 11, 2009 Wow THAT was an obvious blowoff. Dont call or text her again, wait for her to text you suggesting an outing. she's helping her grandmother out and i suggested hanging out after..
boogieboy Posted December 11, 2009 Posted December 11, 2009 she's helping her grandmother out and i suggested hanging out after.. Well if you dont hear from her later, then you know she didnt want to hang with you again.
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