kizik Posted December 11, 2009 Posted December 11, 2009 comparing fat girls to attractive skinny girls is like comparing apples to oranges More like McDonald's to Whole Foods
alphamale Posted December 11, 2009 Posted December 11, 2009 More like McDonald's to Whole Foods indeed if i wanted to sleep with "overweight females" i could get laid every night by a different one....they are zero challenge and therefore not even on my radar, not to mention i'm not even attracted to them. if she's a little fat that is ok but some woman who is like 100 lbs overweight, no dice man
donnamaybe Posted December 11, 2009 Posted December 11, 2009 comparing fat girls to attractive skinny girls is like comparing apples to oranges Would that be more like comparing apples with bananas? Or maybe a stalk of celery?
Angel1111 Posted December 11, 2009 Posted December 11, 2009 Whenever women play head games with guys, we hear justification for it like "oh they can't help it...it's just how they are pre-wired. Women are pre-wired to act like this from evolution BLAH BLAH BLAH..." If that's true, then how come fat girls never play head games? Are they not to be considered women? Fat girls are basically men with boobs. Straight foward, no-nonsense. No head games. No bull. At least that's how they'd act with a handsome guy who was crushing on them. Now you're gonna say "well, the fat girl has no options. So she has to act this way"...but wait a minute. I thought women "had no control" over how they act, right? I thought women were "pre-wired" to play head games with men, right? So why are fat girls different? To say a fat girl "has no options so she must act that way" implies that she has control over how she acts. That she KNOWS what she's doing! So if the fat girl "knows what she's doing" and has control over how she acts, how do attractive women get a pass for the way THEY act? Or are fat girls just a different species? I'm curious. Thanks. I have to admit that your entire post confuses me. I've never heard that women are pre-wired to play head games, and I've never heard of the distinction between regular girls and fat girls. However, my guess as to what you're talking about is that it's because fat girls don't feel pretty and they don't feel flirtatious, they typically feel very ugly, even if they're not. So it causes them to behave more like an introvert, even if by nature they're not. Women who are happy with their bodies and know it has an effect on the opposite sex are much more likely to be flirtly and playful. As far as head games are concerned, I think that's just a person's nature.
Angel1111 Posted December 11, 2009 Posted December 11, 2009 ....and, btw, I used to know a really heavy girl - she weighed at least 300 lbs - and she played more head games than most people could stand or keep up with. She had a bf, too.
Author bbasher75 Posted December 11, 2009 Author Posted December 11, 2009 Well BBasher, good luck to you in finding that attractive normal woman. You seem to only listen to one person - cognac - who if I recall, has a pretty crap history with women to begin with. No sense in listening to the women in good relationships or the man in a good relationship. You say you want a relationship, but you come off as the kind of guy that is only looking for someone to sleep with. No "normal" attractive woman would be interested in that. So good luck and keep spinning your wheels, let us know how that works out. I guess you can't read, can you? If I wanted someone to just sleep with I'd hire a hooker. I already posted that but apparently, you didn't see it or have trouble with comprehension. But in your mind, because I prefer women who are pretty that must mean I only want sex, and not a relationship.
Awesome Username Posted December 11, 2009 Posted December 11, 2009 Whenever women play head games with guys, we hear justification for it like "oh they can't help it...it's just how they are pre-wired. Women are pre-wired to act like this from evolution BLAH BLAH BLAH..." If that's true, then how come fat girls never play head games? Are they not to be considered women? Fat girls are basically men with boobs. Straight foward, no-nonsense. No head games. No bull. At least that's how they'd act with a handsome guy who was crushing on them. Now you're gonna say "well, the fat girl has no options. So she has to act this way"...but wait a minute. I thought women "had no control" over how they act, right? I thought women were "pre-wired" to play head games with men, right? So why are fat girls different? To say a fat girl "has no options so she must act that way" implies that she has control over how she acts. That she KNOWS what she's doing! So if the fat girl "knows what she's doing" and has control over how she acts, how do attractive women get a pass for the way THEY act? Or are fat girls just a different species? I'm curious. Thanks. probably because 1. You won't give them the time of day, so they don't have a chance or... 2. You are not emotionally invested in them. Usually the person who is the most emotionally invested in the relationship/most attracted to the other person often feels like the other person is playing games with them.
bean1 Posted December 11, 2009 Posted December 11, 2009 I guess you can't read, can you? If I wanted someone to just sleep with I'd hire a hooker. I already posted that but apparently, you didn't see it or have trouble with comprehension. But in your mind, because I prefer women who are pretty that must mean I only want sex, and not a relationship. I'm not sure why I bother, since many women here are trying to be helpful to you, yet you just insult us and say we can't read? You want a relationship. Your attitude and your comments make it painfully obvious to us women here that you COME OFF AS A SUPERFICIAL GUY WHO IS ONLY LOOKING FOR SOMEONE TO SLEEP WITH. "Normal attractive women" are turned off by this. Is that more clear? You want a relationship but that doesn't matter because you are being perceived as something different. Keep doing what you are doing, since you seem to think you are doing everything right.
MissJoness Posted December 11, 2009 Posted December 11, 2009 On here fat=ugly skinny=beautiful? Like there aren't ANY ugly women who are thin. You can't be thin with bad features? Because I've seen very attractive women who were quite cherubic, one is Phyllias Hyman. She was no stick figure but she had a very striking face to me
bean1 Posted December 11, 2009 Posted December 11, 2009 You are the male equivalent of the girl who dresses and acts like a slut at a bar, but is there to look for a husband. You want one thing, but you come off wanting another. So who is to blame?
b52s Posted December 11, 2009 Posted December 11, 2009 Because the guys they play let them get away with it, that's why. They don't walk away; they stick around and ask for more. The amount of b.s. a woman gets away with is directly proportional to the strength of her hold on a guy's balls. If his little head is doing all his thinking for him because she's just sooo very hot, then he's going to let her get away with everything. Right, and for every guy that does NOT let her get away with that behavior, she'll dump said guy, and find a guy who WILL put up with it.
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