BookerT Posted December 10, 2009 Posted December 10, 2009 Analysis of girl from last night's date. Age: Prob 28 +/- a year Face = 8 Body = 10 (amazing bod, I didn't have sex with her, I could just tell) Educated in Toronto and Japan. Smart and interesting to talk to. However.......... I can tell she's the materialistic type. I mean she said she thought I was some 40 year old rich dude (when I saw her in the club I had a female friend sitting on either side of me), and that's why I had a hot girl on each side of me in the club. She's been divorced once. Her ex husband said she was never happy with what he was giving her. Now, I read people pretty well for who they are. So basically if I date this girl long term I'll probably get screwed over some time in the future. At least that's my early warning gut feeling. But I'm so drawn to her, I swear this is why women fall for players haha. They can see the signs and go, screw it, and go for it anyway. That's like the last two girls I've been on dates with, I can tell early on they're selfish. Meanwhile the only nice girl I've been on a date with, said she loves me after 3 weeks one night when she was drunk. Are there no normal women out there?
bbasher75 Posted December 10, 2009 Posted December 10, 2009 Are there no normal women out there? Yes. But they're all very, very fat.
PJKino Posted December 10, 2009 Posted December 10, 2009 Women look at themslves as a lottery tickets they have to cash in before they fall apart I remember reading a post here a women started where she said she was almost in tears becasue she was in her mid 30's and somebody told her shes to old to get a wealthy man This is the type of stuff that makes me glad im single Do these people realize theyres a word for people who put price tags on themslves?
sand26 Posted December 10, 2009 Posted December 10, 2009 Yes, there are many many fun and normal girls who are absolutely beautiful. They don't want charity, they have goals and ambition. They love to laugh and try new things and they don't cause unnecessary drama. They are still human... get depressed sometimes have irrational fears and past problems like all people do. They usually date high quality, normal, attractive, and healthy men. just saying, good luck
Kamille Posted December 10, 2009 Posted December 10, 2009 answer: no. We're all different, so you'll just have to keep looking for the girl who's treally truly right for you. Best of luck.
amirpc Posted December 10, 2009 Posted December 10, 2009 They are out there you just are very very unlikely to meet them in a club environment. It happens, just rare.
Ophelia Rue Posted December 11, 2009 Posted December 11, 2009 Yeah right! Men always SAY they want normal girls, but when they get one, they lose interest and go out and cheat with their crazy, psychopath, scandalous ex-girlfriends. Or some crazy stripper. Or some nut job they met drunk at a club. Psssh. Men!
pandagirl Posted December 11, 2009 Posted December 11, 2009 No one is normal. Everyone is normal. Seriously. You just have to find someone that fits you!
streetlamp Posted December 11, 2009 Posted December 11, 2009 This is a pretty narcissistic post IMO. But agree with the general consensus: no one is normal. You just have to find a right fit. Sounds like you're not really looking for long-term. Maybe I'm mistaken?
Author BookerT Posted December 11, 2009 Author Posted December 11, 2009 This is a pretty narcissistic post IMO. But agree with the general consensus: no one is normal. You just have to find a right fit. Sounds like you're not really looking for long-term. Maybe I'm mistaken? No one is normal. Everyone is narcissistical.
bbasher75 Posted December 11, 2009 Posted December 11, 2009 answer: no. We're all different, so you'll just have to keep looking for the girl who's treally truly right for you. Best of luck. I used to buy that B.S. but if that were true, there wouldnt be "pickup manuals" etc. If all women were truly different, the pickup stuff wouldnt work on alot, if not most of them. But they are all, pretty much and unfortunately, the same. My motto is "different woman, same crap". the sleazy/scummy guy who treats them poorly, pretty much, is what they want.
D-Lish Posted December 11, 2009 Posted December 11, 2009 (when I saw her in the club I had a female friend sitting on either side of me), and that's why I had a hot girl on each side of me in the club. That screams games... What a turn off.
fallendisguise Posted December 11, 2009 Posted December 11, 2009 No one is normal. Everyone is normal. Seriously. You just have to find someone that fits you! I completely agree. What's normal to you may not be normal to someone else. We all have faults, but it's finding someone's whose faults are acceptable to you.
Butterflying Posted December 11, 2009 Posted December 11, 2009 Some people may think it's abnormal for a man to have two women on each arm and still pick up another woman. In my honest opinion, you get back what you put out. This abnormal woman you dated last night was attracted to the "perception" of you being the "type" of man who does this sort of abnormal thing. If you don't want to attract Gold Diggers, don't portray yourself as a Gold Mine.
InspiredbyYou Posted December 11, 2009 Posted December 11, 2009 A) I hope you are not in your 20's and she pegged you for 40, that would be depressing. B) If she said to you that she thought the only reason two hot women were by your side is because she imagined you had money, that's her underhanded way of telling you she didn't see what was so special about you to be surrounded by those two hot women other than money. That's the most depressing of all. C) If something tells you that she will break your heart, that something is that she is out of your league, at least in your head she is.
muse08 Posted December 11, 2009 Posted December 11, 2009 That screams games... What a turn off. Totally agree...and at a "club"...Not the worst thing in the world, but not the best atmosphere for meeting non-materialistic people...
Author BookerT Posted December 11, 2009 Author Posted December 11, 2009 That screams games... What a turn off. I didn't deliberately set it up that way, it was the girls that wanted to sit either side of me, because it was hard for the girl further away to hear what I was saying with the music blasting. But I like how you automatically assumed it was a deliberate game play.
Sprig Posted December 11, 2009 Posted December 11, 2009 Simple answer? No. They are all crazy in some way, just used to that idea.
Kamille Posted December 11, 2009 Posted December 11, 2009 I used to buy that B.S. but if that were true, there wouldnt be "pickup manuals" etc. If all women were truly different, the pickup stuff wouldnt work on alot, if not most of them. But they are all, pretty much and unfortunately, the same. My motto is "different woman, same crap". the sleazy/scummy guy who treats them poorly, pretty much, is what they want. And you don't think your reliance on 'manuals' to deal with human beings is part of the problem? Or that objectifying them as all one and the same is perhaps having an effect on how open you are to actually get to know them as unique individuals? Do you also rely on a fixed set of rules to build your business relationships or friendships? My point is: we all need to use an ounce of common sense and stop agonizing every time we date someone who isn't compatible with us. Guess what, love wouldn't be special if we could all fall with just anyone. Let's all stop thinking there's something wrong with ourselves or something wrong with an entire gender. Nothing's wrong: finding people we're compatible with just takes time.
Author BookerT Posted December 11, 2009 Author Posted December 11, 2009 And you don't think your reliance on 'manuals' to deal with human beings is part of the problem? Or that objectifying them as all one and the same is perhaps having an effect on how open you are to actually get to know them as unique individuals? Do you also rely on a fixed set of rules to build your business relationships or friendships? My point is: we all need to use an ounce of common sense and stop agonizing every time we date someone who isn't compatible with us. Guess what, love wouldn't be special if we could all fall with just anyone. Let's all stop thinking there's something wrong with ourselves or something wrong with an entire gender. Nothing's wrong: finding people we're compatible with just takes time. Well actually there are certain behaviors and attributes that create interest in the opposite sex during COURTSHIP which is different from later in the relationship. Also, there are certain rules which definitely help in business, which is why there are certain sales strategies. Most people when they say individuals and relationships are unique are thinking of the later stages of a relationships, and they'll be right. But once you've approached enough women, and not just shallow women or women with low self esteem, you know that certain "moves" work better. It's funny btw when women assume that if a woman falls for a man with set moves she's shallow or has low self esteem. Appearing confident is naturally appealing to most women and many men, and appearing desired already by the opposite sex also makes a person desirable to most.
Ariadne Posted December 11, 2009 Posted December 11, 2009 Face = 8 Body = 10 Educated in Toronto and Japan. Smart and interesting she thought I was some 40 year old rich... that's why I had a hot girl on each side last two girls... selfish So she saw you like some old guy, and rich to have two girls to which she found out you are not. In this situation, for a girl to be so mesmerized with you there'd either have to be a spiritual connection of a lifetime, or else, I don't see any chance that she'd even like you.
Island Girl Posted December 11, 2009 Posted December 11, 2009 I used to buy that B.S. but if that were true, there wouldnt be "pickup manuals" etc. If all women were truly different, the pickup stuff wouldnt work on alot, if not most of them. But they are all, pretty much and unfortunately, the same. That crap works on a select group of women - and just to pick them up. There is a reason these "Professional PUAs" can't have a successful relationship -- or a relationship at all. My motto is "different woman, same crap". And I am guessing you make the same choices all the time and then don't even realize the common denominator isn't the girl -- it's YOU. the sleazy/scummy guy who treats them poorly, pretty much, is what they want. Some girls with self esteem issues yes. There is quite a variety out there. You just keep picking berries from the same bush and then saying they are all the same.
JerseyShortie Posted December 11, 2009 Posted December 11, 2009 Yeah, there is really no such thing as normal. I am sure many women have looked at you OP and thought you were a screwball. That's the way the world works. Why do men say they don't want a woman materialistic but they like women that take care of themselves: mind, body, clothes, education...etc etc etc. Those things cost money. Why do us girls get called materialistic in taking pride in these things and liking them. Men like them too. I think it's a insecure thing on the guy's part. Also, OP why would you take the word of this woman's ex over wanting to get to know her? He could be right or he coudl be wrong. There are two sides to every story. Then again, she could be repeating old patterns and picking men based off her ex. Who knows.
phineas Posted December 11, 2009 Posted December 11, 2009 Yeah, there is really no such thing as normal. I am sure many women have looked at you OP and thought you were a screwball. That's the way the world works. Why do men say they don't want a woman materialistic but they like women that take care of themselves: mind, body, clothes, education...etc etc etc. Those things cost money. Why do us girls get called materialistic in taking pride in these things and liking them. Men like them too. I think it's a insecure thing on the guy's part. Also, OP why would you take the word of this woman's ex over wanting to get to know her? He could be right or he coudl be wrong. There are two sides to every story. Then again, she could be repeating old patterns and picking men based off her ex. Who knows. I don't consider a woman materialistic for having those things. As the saying goes men & their toys.... not much different. It's when a woman's attraction to a man is based on how much he can spend on her that I consider them materialistic.
D-Jam Posted December 11, 2009 Posted December 11, 2009 I cosign on the club thing. I used to be in that industry. Normal girls don't go to clubs unless they're dragged there by a pack of friends. Even then, they're hiding in their cliques. Normal girls go to restaurants, cafes, martini bars, etc. Places where it's not a meat market of playas, douchebags,and attention whores. Seen loads of guys who wish they could find the normal intelligent woman who dresses like a club rat and parties hard as well as bangs hard... ...doesn't exist. No more than the bad boy who is loyal, committed, and good to his woman.
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