DustySaltus Posted December 10, 2009 Posted December 10, 2009 Girl says, "I want you to come by, I like and want to cuddle". Questions: a) Does that automatically mean sex is involved? b) Does she expect me to spend the night? c) Is she becoming emotionally attached to me?
alphamale Posted December 10, 2009 Posted December 10, 2009 a) Does that automatically mean sex is involved? no b) Does she expect me to spend the night? not necessarily c) Is she becoming emotionally attached to me? probably
Sam Spade Posted December 10, 2009 Posted December 10, 2009 Girl says, "I want you to come by, I like and want to cuddle". Questions: a) Does that automatically mean sex is involved? b) Does she expect me to spend the night? c) Is she becoming emotionally attached to me? no, no, and *maybe* yeas. Just make sure that you pursue sex anyway (and see how she reacts). You don't want to set a dangerous precedent that cuddling is the primary way to connect. Cuddling + hanky-panky+cuddling is the way to go. Even girls that enjoy sex can get way too comfortable with "just cuddling".
carhill Posted December 10, 2009 Posted December 10, 2009 Be a good man-toy and obey Great example of how a woman uses words and the well-known focus of men on sex to set a mood. Cool stuff
Dark_of_the_Moon Posted December 10, 2009 Posted December 10, 2009 a) No, but the possibility exists. b) Not necessarily c) Possibly
mem11363 Posted December 10, 2009 Posted December 10, 2009 These situations are the absolute pinnacle of emotional ambiguity. They are really fun if you take them as an end in themselves. Your mission when you cuddle her - is that she feels same and loved. That means you let her totally set the pace. Let her initiate the contact - and don't accelerate it. You should do the light stuff - her hair smells nice. She feels good. And then if she is subtle and in a low key manner starts to wind you up - you respond in kind but always always a half step slower then her. That way she knows you WANT her - but that she has total control of the accelerator. Once she passes a certain line - and you will know when she does - it is ok to say - "I wish I could make you feel as good as the way you are making me feel right now." Girl says, "I want you to come by, I like and want to cuddle". Questions: a) Does that automatically mean sex is involved? b) Does she expect me to spend the night? c) Is she becoming emotionally attached to me?
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