rateyes Posted December 10, 2009 Posted December 10, 2009 girl doesnt return my texts all the time. tried asking her out, kinda shrugged me off. will not say anything to me sometimes at youth group. So i took a hint, and pretty much stopped talkin to her. But she will always stare at me. I always catch her out of the corner of my eye lookin at me, then turning away(assuming its to see if Im lookin at her or something)(yes, im lookin cuz i noticed this and wanted to see if it was reoccurring). stood in the hall waiting for professor to get final exam ready, i stood on one side of the hall she stood on the other side, and like basically stared me down while i was talking to some friends,didn't even talk to her friends. not trying to "omgz doez she liekz me!" this, just trying to see if there is a possible reason for this double standard behavior. Maybe this is a behavior i can pick up on next time to help me decide if a girl is interested or not, but is being retarded.
boogieboy Posted December 10, 2009 Posted December 10, 2009 Shes just a weird idiot. She likes your attention, doesnt reply to you, then when you stop giving it to her, she tries to stare you down to reel you back in. Next time look at her like shes pathetic, because she is.
Yukikazi Posted December 10, 2009 Posted December 10, 2009 Pay her no attention and whenever you catch her looking.. wink at her as indication that you caught her.. but continue paying no extra attention then that.
Author rateyes Posted December 10, 2009 Author Posted December 10, 2009 alright thanks, so this is a bad sign to look out for?
Yukikazi Posted December 10, 2009 Posted December 10, 2009 alright thanks, so this is a bad sign to look out for? Dunno.. never gotten the crazy eyes from a chick before...
Author rateyes Posted December 10, 2009 Author Posted December 10, 2009 Dunno.. never gotten the crazy eyes from a chick before... not really crazy eyes, just peekin at me, when shes blantely shown no interest. figured a girl with no interest would just...not look at me. and i did do a "wink approach", i noticed the hall thing, and i just looked straight at her for a good 1-2 mins straight while i talked to my friends, was like i was talkin to her, but wasnt. she would go back and forth between lookin and not. rather confused by it. its like shes interested , but wont admit it.
boogieboy Posted December 10, 2009 Posted December 10, 2009 not really crazy eyes, just peekin at me, when shes blantely shown no interest. figured a girl with no interest would just...not look at me. and i did do a "wink approach", i noticed the hall thing, and i just looked straight at her for a good 1-2 mins straight while i talked to my friends, was like i was talkin to her, but wasnt. she would go back and forth between lookin and not. rather confused by it. its like shes interested , but wont admit it. Shes not interested, or she wouldnt have blown you off. DOnt look for whats not there. Move on to the next chick.
Author rateyes Posted December 10, 2009 Author Posted December 10, 2009 Shes not interested, or she wouldnt have blown you off. DOnt look for whats not there. Move on to the next chick. i have moved on, im just wonderin if a girl does this, if its good or not. and its not is what im gettin lol.
boogieboy Posted December 10, 2009 Posted December 10, 2009 i have moved on, im just wonderin if a girl does this, if its good or not. and its not is what im gettin lol. What does that even mean? No its not good, because she is tryin to play games with you, and youre letting her.
jw90063 Posted December 10, 2009 Posted December 10, 2009 girl doesnt return my texts all the time. tried asking her out, kinda shrugged me off. will not say anything to me sometimes at youth group. So i took a hint, and pretty much stopped talkin to her. But she will always stare at me. I always catch her out of the corner of my eye lookin at me, then turning away(assuming its to see if Im lookin at her or something)(yes, im lookin cuz i noticed this and wanted to see if it was reoccurring). stood in the hall waiting for professor to get final exam ready, i stood on one side of the hall she stood on the other side, and like basically stared me down while i was talking to some friends,didn't even talk to her friends. not trying to "omgz doez she liekz me!" this, just trying to see if there is a possible reason for this double standard behavior. Maybe this is a behavior i can pick up on next time to help me decide if a girl is interested or not, but is being retarded. Could be she is scared of dating for some reason, although she is attracted to you at same time. Is she a shy person?
boogieboy Posted December 10, 2009 Posted December 10, 2009 Its possible that she is SO nervous that she cant form words to talk to you, but who really wants to devlop the patience to work though that work? Who has the time?
temple Posted December 10, 2009 Posted December 10, 2009 Hmm, are you absolutely sure she is looking at you? Maybe she's just cross-eyed..haha...or maybe she doesn't even realise she's looking (maybe she's just daydreaming about something and you happen to be in her eye line?) Either way, it's annoying but I would forget about her she sounds like bad news.
SoulSearch_CO Posted December 10, 2009 Posted December 10, 2009 Maybe she's trying to figure out the easiest way to dismember and disembowel you so that you never text her ever, ever again.
DustySaltus Posted December 10, 2009 Posted December 10, 2009 1. She likes you but has a boyfriend 2. She's extremely shy. 3. You starting staring at her first and she stared back because you were staring at her and now she think you're equally weird...lol 4. She has a lazy eye. 5. Wants attention
espec10001 Posted December 10, 2009 Posted December 10, 2009 What color are her eyes? If they are darker or hazel, these eyes staring you down usually means "love me or I'll kill you". While if she has a lighter eye color it usually means "love me or I'll die".
Yukikazi Posted December 10, 2009 Posted December 10, 2009 What color are her eyes? If they are darker or hazel, these eyes staring you down usually means "love me or I'll kill you". While if she has a lighter eye color it usually means "love me or I'll die". Where on earth did you hear that?
DustySaltus Posted December 10, 2009 Posted December 10, 2009 Where on earth did you hear that? wtf? sounds like either way he's screwed.
boogieboy Posted December 10, 2009 Posted December 10, 2009 wtf? sounds like either way he's screwed. He's scrwing himself because he hasnt blown her off in his mind yet. This woman isnt supposed to exist to him anymore.
DustySaltus Posted December 10, 2009 Posted December 10, 2009 He's scrwing himself because he hasnt blown her off in his mind yet. This woman isnt supposed to exist to him anymore. That too.
espec10001 Posted December 10, 2009 Posted December 10, 2009 Where on earth did you hear that? I haven't heard it I've seen it with my own eyes. Having felt the initial instinct when first meeting a female, I learned soon after by having conversations with them and looking into their eyes the darkness. In older times women would dilate their pupils to look more "comely". The eyes will dilate when they view something pleasurable, and thus with large dark eyes it appears that she is enamored with you, but it is much more difficult to discern just how pleasurable she finds you. On the other side, the light eyes, are easier to discern. Since the lightness around the pupil gives away the attraction level, a light eyed woman cannot use the mysterious edge the same unless she dilates her pupils. She will often times appear to be cold, or in needing of love. But again, in the case of initial instinct this appearance of "love me or I'll die" results in the same outcome: love! This is why one of the most effective ways a female can attract a man is with her eyes. Sure, her body is powerful in it's own right, but the eyes, so much stronger. Even stronger, dilated eyes.
Yukikazi Posted December 10, 2009 Posted December 10, 2009 I haven't heard it I've seen it with my own eyes. Having felt the initial instinct when first meeting a female, I learned soon after by having conversations with them and looking into their eyes the darkness. In older times women would dilate their pupils to look more "comely". The eyes will dilate when they view something pleasurable, and thus with large dark eyes it appears that she is enamored with you, but it is much more difficult to discern just how pleasurable she finds you. On the other side, the light eyes, are easier to discern. Since the lightness around the pupil gives away the attraction level, a light eyed woman cannot use the mysterious edge the same unless she dilates her pupils. She will often times appear to be cold, or in needing of love. But again, in the case of initial instinct this appearance of "love me or I'll die" results in the same outcome: love! This is why one of the most effective ways a female can attract a man is with her eyes. Sure, her body is powerful in it's own right, but the eyes, so much stronger. Even stronger, dilated eyes. Err so you are saying that in the olden days.. dark eyed lasses would put something in their eyes to cause them to dilate?
Author rateyes Posted December 10, 2009 Author Posted December 10, 2009 Could be she is scared of dating for some reason, although she is attracted to you at same time. Is she a shy person? umm, shes talks quite a bit when we talk 1-1, in groups she kindaforgets in there, but asks for my input. isnt reserved around her friends at all. But around guys ive never seen her flirt or anything, so it may be one of those, only shy around guys thing, otherwise, nah she isnt. Its possible that she is SO nervous that she cant form words to talk to you, but who really wants to devlop the patience to work though that work? Who has the time? we talk alot, weve hung out alot, its like she bipolars. and eh, i have noone else to chase right now, i might just beat this dead horse until another horse comes, nothing else going on. Maybe she's trying to figure out the easiest way to dismember and disembowel you so that you never text her ever, ever again. possibly, havnt texted her in 2 weeks. She said hi to me in class yesterday(where this situation happened) i said hi, she said how are you, good, you? good. Then she said something bout cant wait for this test to be over, i said "ya.." then didnt pay any attention to her. 1. She likes you but has a boyfriend - No BF as far as im aware. 2. She's extremely shy. - unless this happens to guys she likes or is bipolar or something, nope shes not. 3. You starting staring at her first and she stared back because you were staring at her and now she think you're equally weird...lol - nah, i was looking at my friends and saw her lookin. i like to scan the crowd when talkin to people, See what people are doin, im big into psychology and sociology. 4. She has a lazy eye. - lmao, nah unless she has two? 5. Wants attention - maybe.
Author rateyes Posted December 10, 2009 Author Posted December 10, 2009 What color are her eyes? If they are darker or hazel, these eyes staring you down usually means "love me or I'll kill you". While if she has a lighter eye color it usually means "love me or I'll die". blue. and , dont want someone killing them-self lol.
CaliGuy Posted December 10, 2009 Posted December 10, 2009 girl doesnt return my texts all the time. tried asking her out, kinda shrugged me off. will not say anything to me sometimes at youth group. So i took a hint, and pretty much stopped talkin to her. But she will always stare at me. I always catch her out of the corner of my eye lookin at me, then turning away(assuming its to see if Im lookin at her or something)(yes, im lookin cuz i noticed this and wanted to see if it was reoccurring). stood in the hall waiting for professor to get final exam ready, i stood on one side of the hall she stood on the other side, and like basically stared me down while i was talking to some friends,didn't even talk to her friends. not trying to "omgz doez she liekz me!" this, just trying to see if there is a possible reason for this double standard behavior. Maybe this is a behavior i can pick up on next time to help me decide if a girl is interested or not, but is being retarded. You've made it known you are interested and she isn't really doing anything to let you know the feelings are mutual. My question to you is: "Why are you wasting your time on girls who aren't interested in you instead of spending time on the ones that are?!" We always want what we can't have and never want what we can. That's the insatiable behavior of mankind that makes us pursue and date the wrong people and get hurt. Trust me, if someone is really into you, there won't be an inking of doubt.
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