erbear5 Posted December 9, 2009 Posted December 9, 2009 I met this guy, I wanna say, 4 or 5 weeks ago...we met thru a mutual friend and within these past weeks,we met up many times & hit it off everytime...things were going really well, he seemed affectionate, like he was real into me, the kicker is that he just told me acouple days ago that he's "dating" someone else......he tells me that he dates around, that it keeps your options open..but.then when I asked him where I stood, he told me he thought he was "dating" me too?....He tells me he loves spending time with me & getting to know me, thinks we have a great time together....but he's seeing & doing the same thing with another woman?? I'm just getting back into the dating scene & I feel like an idiot, like I'm Plan B, if this chick hes seeing too doesn't work out...so then I'll still be there when he has no one.When I ask about her & where I stand, he tells me quote unquote, "I definately don't look at her the way I do you. I have a great time with you & between the both of you, you're "winning"." I'm winning??? I'm like so lost here....and it sucks because I do like him, we have an awesome time together....back off & see what happens? run for the hills & don't even bother with him? HELP
callingyouuu Posted December 9, 2009 Posted December 9, 2009 Don't get caught up in his game! He's making it a competition to make you want to try for him more and "win" his affections, and it seems to be working. He's being very "picky" about his dating habits, and I think it would help if you did the same. I don't think you need to run for the hills just yet, but dating should be fun, not stressful. Take your time to smell a different rose once in a while. i.e., see other guys!
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