stace79 Posted December 9, 2009 Posted December 9, 2009 This is more venting than anything... So my ridiculous ex-fiance called me last night. We hadn't spoken since Thursday, when he told me there was little to no chance of reconciliation and that he had already met two or three girls he was making friends with and maybe something more. I truly didn't expect him to call me for awhile, and I was actually okay with that. I figured I'd have a few weeks before he would try to reach me. But I've been fine. So he left me a stupid voice message last night, and I have to admit he was smart about it -- he told me his apartment people put mouse traps with glue in his apartment to catch one...and it got stuck and couldn't get free. He knows I love animals so he was supposedly calling to ask me how to set it free outside. Well I don't freaking know -- call the maintenance people. Anyway, I was strong and didn't call him back. I'd forgotten about it mostly even. Now he e-mails me today asking me to freaking confirm that I don't want to talk right now. Right now? I don't want to talk ever. I'm moving on now. He thinks he can do better than me, well go ahead and freaking try to find someone better than me. I am ignoring his stupid e-mail, too. Since when do I owe him "confirmation" that I don't want to speak to him anymore??? Seriously, where do these people get off acting like this to us... you folks in here with me, coping, need to get angry. Nobody deserves to be treated that way!! Thanks for listening to my rant.
Ariadne Posted December 9, 2009 Posted December 9, 2009 Since when do I owe him "confirmation" that I don't want to speak to him anymore??? Seriously, where do these people get off acting like this I know! I mean, really...
Author stace79 Posted December 9, 2009 Author Posted December 9, 2009 I know! I mean, really... It's infuriating. I can feel steam coming out my ears. Maybe some people like to drag themselves through misery for half their lives, but I am not one of them! I am moving on and want to have fun with people who actually give a rat's a$$ about me! Ugh! lol
LostInLA Posted December 9, 2009 Posted December 9, 2009 Good for you for not responding! Keep it up, it WILL get easier!
Trinitron Posted December 11, 2009 Posted December 11, 2009 Right on girl, keep on truckin! And you are so right, you have worth, don't ever let anyone ever treat you bad, take this as a lesson to apply to your new boundaries for your next relationship. As of now its something you will not tolerate ever again. keep the NC up. Trinitron
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