lilbelle Posted December 9, 2009 Posted December 9, 2009 So, we got back together, about 3 weeks now. First weekend, amazing time, left very happy, he seemed to want a future Second Weekend, verry sweet time with him, he listened, cared, seemed to really want to make things work Third Weekend, he leaves town, haven't heard from him since. So here is the deal. He says the following and I'm confused me.. I'm convinced you like me to miss you him... I don't like you to miss me, I just don't know why you do WTF???? I'm trying to be patient. Talked the night before I tell him then that he needs to start calling me. I have to be honest, I am so worn out with everything else in my life going on that I cannot chase his ass anymore. Why can't he just call? I am out of energy. Then he talks like he wants to see me before he leaves. I text the next day, ask if we are still on and if so what time. He replies that he is still at work would probably be another hour. I say me too so how about 8? He replies he won't have time. When we are together it's nothing but mixed signals. One minute talking about the future, the next getting as far as possible away from me in the room. I am so confused that my mind is spinning. I made a promise to myself to not call him, that he must call me to see me. Then my guy friend says that is wrong and he probably thinks I'm mad at him. He is used to me calling him so I should initiate. I say screw that, he has my number, if he really wants to be with me why can't he get it together. He says that he was never there, that he never came back to me, all this bs, then 4 hours later says I'm his girlfriend. WTF is going on here? Can someone help me out with the wishy washy behavoir, the no calling, the craziness I am being put through?
puppydog Posted December 10, 2009 Posted December 10, 2009 He replies he won't have time. Bad sign. If he really wanted to make time, he would. When we are together it's nothing but mixed signals. One minute talking about the future, the next getting as far as possible away from me in the room. A guy who really wants to be with you does not send mixed signals. I made a promise to myself to not call him, that he must call me to see me. Then do it. Stick to your guns. Then my guy friend says that is wrong and he probably thinks I'm mad at him. No chasing. He is used to me calling him so I should initiate. Again, no chasing. He has your number. He has 10 fingers. I say screw that, he has my number, if he really wants to be with me why can't he get it together. Yes. But he's not calling and that should say something. He says that he was never there, that he never came back to me, all this bs, then 4 hours later says I'm his girlfriend. That is BS. Do not accept this treatment. He's stringing you along. WTF is going on here? Can someone help me out with the wishy washy behavoir, the no calling, the craziness I am being put through? He clearly does not feel you are a priority. Do you really want to be in a relationship where you're the one chasing after him? If he wants to be with you, he will pound down your door. Clearly he's just toeing the door to see if it'll open. You're letting him do that.
Author lilbelle Posted December 10, 2009 Author Posted December 10, 2009 your right pd. sick of the breadcrumbs and dishonesty. time to go back to nc and be done with this for good. i deserve better
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